My life and my boys

BOYS Training

2010-04-30T14:40:00.004+08:00

We have started to train the boys to help us.
And to start with -- we have timed their meals eating on their own to ensure they finish all thats in their plate and in the least time possible. They take their plates to the sink and the plates need to be finished -- no leftovers.

The motivation is to gain enough points to earn the privilege to play their compute, WII, and their DS.

After school they put away their bags and lunch boxes. They put away their socks and jackets. We have also taught them to pack away toys before asking for others to be taken out.

They take their own baths, dry themselves and brush their teeth. Its taken a while for us to get this up to speed -- sometimes us parents just do it ourselves to avoid stressing and the kids mucking up. However I think its high time they should really learn.

It sure is a work in progress -- but this is hoping they will continue to do it. One day they can put away the washing from the line, make their beds and do the dishes but for now we start with this.

Good on ya Jacob and Jerome for doing your part of the bargain -- independence = games unlimited.

A day out in the city

2010-04-20T23:18:00.003+08:00

I feel so guilty that the 2 boys happiness sometimes is compromised as my concentration is directly at Jorel's activities. I am humbled though because they step up the plate and really help out their brother.

I asked hubby if I could take the kids to the Sydney Aquarium.
I marvelled at how simple happiness can take flight in such a short train ride.
I am proud to say this ride is bliss for my boys. Just as they would be happy enough to check out toys in the store -- to touch and to check out whats there but never to demand to buy. The ride is like a treat !

When I had mentioned that trip to the city -- 2 days before they were already counting the sleeps with so much gusto....

And as Patrick dropped us off at the station and we bought our tickets -- they couldn't stop talking. They were indeed excited and they couldn't stop with the questions -- what time the train will come, what kind of train will arrive and what time can we arrive at the city. They even checked out the stations on the City rail map and asked me to help them plot the stations we were passing by to reach our destination. Simple happiness I tell you !

And when we got to the Aquarium -- how wonderful to hear their commentary about the 'sea creatures' (as they termed it) and their conversations. They asked me to take pictures and videos because they are asking me to make a mini-book of the trip to share with their classmates. I am gladly taking up the request and here's hoping I can do it asap. Here are some snapshots of the trip..

Patrick, on his 37th birthday

2010-04-20T23:11:00.003+08:00

Patrick the reluctant celebrant

I would always try to make a big deal for celebrating his birthday but he always wants to downplay it – how ? no celebration – no party --- its just another day.. but as simple as it is --- I need to recognize what he does for the family --- the hard work, the patience, the perseverance in every aspect of our lives,....

Thanks honey for being patient and really putting up with my antics. For the love you always unconditionally give us. Of course the relentless help you extend to me and the boys – God is watchingyou and am certain he will continue to bless you with good health and blessings because you are a great dad/husband.

Happy birthday to my best friend, my lover and to my partner in life !

Catch up time

2010-01-17T14:41:00.003+08:00

Its been a very hectic few months -- this blog has taken a backseat to Fb mania,.. I should really write my thoughts here.. so let me just enumerate current updates of the Yap family...

My 2 boys Jacob and Jerome are on vacation from school and of course the WII is their best friend --what was meant to be only Wed to Sun thing has become all day long Mon to Fri,.

Oh I guess it beats the boredom and the fights the come along with doing something they dont like or had just enuff of it... Obviously the WII helps them work together -- shares the joy of the playing Mario kart.. I would never imagine in my lifetime every enjoying that -- I guess I am not a competitive person nor do I get thrills from it. I have come to realise I am more artistically incline -- hence the papertoling and the scrapbooking.

Hubby Patrick on the other hand has arrived -- not in the mere sense of having left and arrive at Kingsford smith airport. Its more of realising, Sydney is where he should be. He has truly adopted the Australian way of life and now refers to Manila as just the vacation country and the place to visit his family. This is where we live now and this is where our boys will grow up. Of course with our children studying here and our 3rd son Jorel starting Early Intervention this year. Its also a blessing that he has come to realise the industry he should be in and the kind of financial rewards he can potentially get to provide for our family. I know leaving Manila was so hard for him to start over. It was just nice he has a path to move forward and has found fulfillment in his work. I know God will continue to guide him along the way. God knows our needs especially with Patrick dealing with mortgage solo.

My son Jorel has been trying to speak and picks up sign language easier now. I am so proud to recount his milestones because I know GOD is always visible in his life. As always when I feel sad and lost -- he keeps me hoping and surprises me with little words he forms from his little sweet mouth. If only you see how my heart bursts each time he says TA (thank you), asks for milk, and says his name. Of late he started saying 'yes' with prompts and for others thats' a natural course of life, but for Jorel its a slow process to connect speech to his needs. When he says YEAH -- I'd want to do cartwheels. I do feel funny teaching him 'NO ' but I know am not with him 24/7 this year -- he needs to be always aware in responding to other peoples' requests.

Over all -- I have just had a simple 2009 year. I have started becoming a little more conscious with weight and fitness, gaining some poundage in the process of enjoying my food. I have had been religious with fulfilling my ME time -- so I am not slow to anger and frustration. Nice salon trips for mani/pedi/hairdo has done the trick. Laryngitis toward year end also stopped me from screaming each time I am unhappy with things. The kids seem to be more cooperative for some reason. I guess the time out for Mommy made her look more lucrative to the kids. The monster mom has softened a little. Jacob now cuddles and kisses me more.. I love it.

I would always promise myself that I would try to be a better mom but you know -- I can only really do my best. I am not perfect I know am deeply flawed person but I know in God's eyes -- he knows I really do try.

Figueroa kids with my parents

Hubby and I

My boys and I

Gifts time and my lovely tree

Gets harder by the year to get my boys
in one frame (in a decent shot)

We will get there

2009-11-08T15:38:00.005+08:00

Jorel is now 4 and its been a year since they have confirmed his special needs and with his speech lagging behind -- I never thought to see the day he can utter what could be close to words. However there is a greater power and if you only believe --- miracles do happen and exist in everday life. Thank you lord for granting our wish to have him utter words before he was four,..From nil to all of sudden 5 to 6 words -- i wish for that to be times five for his 5th bday.This year of accomplishments is a crucial time as we prepare him for school,.. The long road ahead maybe uncertain but my heart hopes and pleads, he does reach full potential.

For those who know him -- he is a sweet and lovable young boy,.. He may suddenly smack anyone without reason but its frustration and lack of verbal language that irks him to do so.. I as a mother profusely beg for people's understanding -- soon -- soon he will not need to do that -- the power of words will eliminate his inability to express his needs.

I am thankful to friends and family who love him, notice him, say hello to him and silently pray for him as he goes through his journey. I am deeply humbled that you take the time to get to know him and that you have genuine concern for him.. SALAMAT.... from the bottom of my heart....

to my sister Jovy who always prays and loves my son -- you are my no.1 staunch supporter and you have really always uplifted me when I get down and want to give up.. Thanks,... thank you for loving my sweet boy,... here are some pics of Jorellie boy.... I hope you like it as much as I do!

Long overdue

2009-10-27T17:43:00.005+08:00

I took close up shots of my sisters' daughter's (Jacinta) Hello kitty party.

it is my hope to kick start the biz I have been so wanting to start,..

I hope this pictures will serve as a catalyst to really get up my little tushy and work,.. and stop procastinating.....

I am back !!!!!

2009-08-24T14:20:00.003+08:00

I have finally gotten up to reviving my blog -- been at the FB updating all the time and so I thought to repost my notes there to here...

Will come back again later to write updates and post pics too...
Be brave... let go....Wednesday, March 4, 2009 at 7:19pm

This has been something DIFFICULT for me....FACING UP TO IT and learning about my Jorel's special needs,... However one is resilient during adversities -- haharapin mo yan eh --- kasi you need too........ So you just learn to live with it and do what you can to help him...

fast forward to present day.....

At first in those indoor playgrounds we would forever be on his tail to make sure he wasn't in any harm or maybe in little tussles with other boys. We have let go and let him have his space... and of late --- he has never pushed anyone (this was just phase for a few months).If anything those huge LOLLIPOPs playland.... He seems the happiest sliding and playing -- like any normal kid would in this kind of recreation.

Now, I have gone against my fears once again and let him learn swimming,.... The 2 older KUYAs have been going for months now and the joy to see them floating and doing laps (with floaters still) is just priceless... One day I saw 4 to 5 month old babies swimming in the pool with their moms. They were still in the floating stages but toddlers younger than JOREL were already doing dog paddles and floating on their backs, or swimming freestyle even...

A little ligh bulb in my head lit up and I realized -- what am I afraid off... Jorel has been swimming (without lessons) with his brothers since he was 4 months old-- this was weeklywas, when we were living in Manila then -- why should it be any different to those babies with no communication skills at this time?There was no reason that Jorel couldnt learn to swim when he can understand instruction now and respond....

My son has been to 2 lessons so far and the same joy and smiles I see each time we go swimming -- yeah that was so evident,.... The second lesson he could even hold the side of the pool and pull himself up to sit on the edge... And when the teacher said 'raise your hand' -- the stance teaching them how to dive (in preparation to it anyway) he raised his hands, all smiles and jumped !

His teacher even let him go and he knew to keep his head over the water. He was kicking and using his hands with such gusto. Ang saya saya nya....... I was amazed when the teacher attended to other kids with him -- he just sat on the edge,... occasionally standing up (so si Mommy JO nervous to the max) but he was fine... He was having a blast,...

I was beaming with happiness --- he could have been learning same time as his KUYAs. To top it off his LOLO George and LOLA Lettie were there to witness his first lessons.... I could see how proud they are of our boys esp our newbie swimmer Jorel.

Moral of the story is ----- if child is not scared -- then why should be the Adult be scared too...
so Mommy Jo -- face up -- it was you that held him back when all along he just wanted to learn...
so from now on ---- BE BRAVE AND LET GO !!

Training my boys.. Wednesday, July 29, 2009 at 5:29pm
If motherhood was made into an instructional manual of sorts, a lot of moms would queue to buy it,.. I would be camping out to just get my hands on it,...

Course my brood are 3 different personalities -- 3 diff types of needs and I had to learn fast how to adapt to each one of them.

Yesterday Jorel and I braved our first dental checkup --- I say that collectively because I was more afraid how he would fight me in helping him open his mouth. Lets say he did it well and they said ALL OK no cavities.. Special kids dont really like opening their mouths, much less a masked individual ask them to do so. I am glad I really try to brush his teeth,... and that luckily he doesnt like sweet drinks or chocolates,.....

Then we had therapy -- it was a wonderful day -- he was really responding well... I left there so proud of my boy,.... God really listens -- he is intently listening to my prayers for sweet boy.

Then came the MALL --- I didn't bring a stroller so I placed him in the mall trolley,.... and at first near the handle where you put babies but I realized he was just too cramped there..I stuff the trolley with Shopping (lagot!) and I made him sit in there and he was just super ok. We waited for us to get KFC and although he preferred my Chinese food -- he sat next to me in the food court area. He even got close to the young ladies while they ate their lunch but he never ran nor tried to go down. He was behaved.

Before I would absolutely die if he was to try to abscond or when he would refuse stopping in the stroller. Now my boy has grown and listens and follows. Again he has surprised me and allowed me to again realize -- I should believe in him more and trust his capabilities. Our life may not be PERFECT but I see GOD's perfection and miracles in HIM. Sometimes I often get depressed but little by little he uplifts me through my son.

I have started walking with him hand in hand for at least 30 minutes for him to get used to it. He would hold my hand automatically and listens to me when i need him closer.... Of course I would like to increase this as time goes by and so I would never be afraid to be walking my 3 boys around (esp when I am alone with the boys).

Lately we have been doing behavioral therapy. and we are working harder to really help him adjust to normalcy,... GOD is good -- he will see us through..... I just know it !

Lasting friendships....

2009-05-06T14:06:00.004+08:00

I am so lucky to catch a night where all my girlfriends were present. These are the people I miss dearly in Manila. A night with them is just time well spent of great conversation and infectious laughter.

God is good -- he gave me a great set of friends who will always be there for you. They are ones who will uplift you when you are down and will rejoice with you in your success. They are first to compliment you when you look good and be the one to give you sound advise when you need it.

This is what friendship should be right. Its to love a person -- good points, flaws and all. And to understand you even in your bad days.

This is why it saddens me to hear of friendships that have not lasted. To hear of people deprived of great relationships (they dont know what they are missing)... How I wish I can share with them secret of our lasting friendship.

BOLDly, I am proud to say we just love each other. We dont feel envy in ones' triumphs (whether its career, family or even hobby), in fact we feel the same intensity too, as if it was US that won.

The support system is strong and we really help each other out, as best as we could.
I think that works -- with that combination -- I think even when we are in our GOLDEN years --- we will still laugh, cry, rejoice in the same way....

It maybe love for family and scrapbooking that has brought together but beyond that --- we have grown together as a band of women who enjoys life. WE have learned to not preoccupy ourselves with negativity and invite good karma by being happy and content... So the smiles you see here are all real.. for there is love amongst friends in this group...

Thank you girls for your time with me in MANILA -- I miss you all already,...
sayang IRIS was absent on this dinner...

Hello kitty madness

2009-04-01T07:53:00.004+08:00

Here is what i made for my baby niece Jacinta on her first bday,...

I hope this is a new beggining for me -- its something that I can do a biz with,... good luck to me and my creative hands,.....

Shameless plug -- Adhesives

2009-03-09T08:04:00.003+08:00

Since my trip to Manila is fast approaching, I am bringing in great adhesives/glue from Australia.

12mm double sided tape at P 180 each.
Buy 5 pcs, each tape will be P170 each.

6mm double sided tape at P 90.00 each.
Buy 5pcs, each tape wil be 80 pesos each

Helmar glue 125 ml

Helmar Acid Free glue has been specifically designed for memory albums, book binding, mounting photographs, preserving old or precious books, documents, scrap books, most craft projects, etc. Featuring excellent adhesion to dense papers, high flexibility, long term life of the bond. Sets clear, dries quickly and will not yellow with age. Non-wrinkling ! ACID-FREE ! Neutral pH level.

P180 each for 125ml bottle

buy 5 and each bottle will only be P 170 each

Kindly advise via email: patnjo2k@yahoo.com for your orders, so I can purchase them off hand the local store.

I am able to get 12x12 albums at P 800 each, however you need to let me know how many you need to so I can get them. They are heavy so I need to only bring for those who order.

Listen,...

2009-03-01T05:48:00.002+08:00

I am always a good listener but its amazing how my little 3 year old boy teaches me to listen intently,...

My son has been at it with his alphabet train puzzle. And one day the letter A had gone missing (he felt lost starting the puzzle without it). We looked for it everywhere -- and it was nowhere to be found. He would still anyway complete it no fail when he remembered it and gestures for me to bring it down and open the box.

I had it in my head --- thinking where it could be..... when I remembered a paper bag he was fussing over, whinging about because he couldn't yank it out of the corner (where mom place it for storage). I dismissed his pleas thinking he just wanted to make mess (take things out and just spread it around the living room). He protested and cried a little when he saw me bring it to the next room, and under my breath, I said that its his brothers not his.

Lo and behold when I did remember about that incident and Patrick and I looked in the bag -- the elusive letter A was there. I called him to the bedroom and he flashed this great big smile when he saw it! I knew he was so excited to finally find it too!

It was a lesson that Mommy Jo learned today. For Jorel, communication isn't with words at this stage -- its is sounds, gestures and actions. SO today I am humbled by this little being, to listen intently, listen with my heart and to try and read what he is communicating to me.

Jorel, I know you are trying --- so I am so sorry Mom failed to listen.....

My little boy is learning,...

2009-02-21T17:12:00.003+08:00

I am just amazed the little things that my boy has been able to do,... Jorel has been showing signs of great response in his Speech theraphy and OT. Now undertaking these is no sweat already. I often have him walk into the room, settle in his seat and have this face that says -- "I am all set to learn". Like any mom - those are little indications there is progress somewhere. They are our baby steps to learning and I consider it very positive signs.

He did some quick matching, doing parts of the face, taking up the little tasks at OT that he used to just tantrum however now with little fuss. He is improving in his thinking skills and retains a whole lot of the play skills he is being taught. One of the statements that our Speech therapist said stuck in my head " He is responding well, there is something in there.."... This in reference to all the little tasks we have been working on the past months and how he flys through them now. Those worry wart thoughts of mine are starting to diminish -- these little things have really propelled me to work harder with him,.....

Now he will face theraphy weekly now -- its time to act swifter in the signing, the pictures and the working team (myself, his therapists and his pre school teachers) in his life. I ferevently pray that this year will really bring out the best in him. And he will speak -- I know in GOD's time he will,.. I claim it ........

Here is something to share with you that truly warmed my heart....

I hope it will make you smile -- just as much as it made me....

Twas a Xmas party,...

2008-12-30T06:17:00.019+08:00

It's always busy in the Figueroa house at Coralgum Place on X'mas day.

Without any other guests, we alone have 11 grand kids aged from 11 down to 9 months: AJ, Joshua, Jessica, Andrei Joel, Jacob, Jerome, Jorel, Joanna, Jacinta, Julia and Miya Jaye (we have 6 boys and 5 girls), 4 Figueroa kids: Joel, Joanne, Jovy and Josef, 4 in-laws: Gina, Patrick, John and Sarah (the spouses) and my parents Jess and Des Figueroa ---------------> which makes a total of 21 people in one house.

You can defnitely call it party ha? lets see if there is an addition next year hahhahahahha! unahan,....

Here are the family pics:

Kuya Joel and Ate Gina with their kids AJ, Joshua, Jessica and Andrei Josef

Patrick and Joanne Yap and their boys: Jacob, Jerome and Jorel

John and Jovy Sebastian
with their pretty daughters Joanna and Jacinta.

Josef and Sarah Figueroa
with their pretty daughters Julia and Miya Jaye.

Of course the grand parents just was bowled over with all the grandchildren all eleven of them.

As always for the 4 families to get the Xmas cash that Papa prepares for us we needed to find the clue from the card he gave us (inside the card he made a Xmas tree shape using dollar coins). He told us the clue was in the card in front (will insert pic later when I have taken one).

In the end it was Josef that figured out the winter scene and picked up the clue as cold or freezing. He then went through the freezer and found my father eclipse chewing gum (this was the clue to get the Xmas envelope). Incidentally the eclipse had ICE written on it to describe its flavor --- quite smart for him to think this one through -- he gave us 10 minutes to find it and good thing Josef thought of it... and then we all got ours. Jovy was lucky last and got nervous she wasnt getting her cash too.... Last year, Papa hid it behind the wedding pictures that mom displays of all of us in the living room. Patrick figured it out that last Xmas then.

It was a blast but we were all weary we wouldnt get the cash hahahaha......
Here are the family shots with the inlaws

Moms who have special children.. a good read....

2008-12-09T08:39:00.000+08:00

To Wonderful Mothers with a Special/Gifted Child like me...

1. I am first and foremost a child. I have autism. I am not primarily "autistic."
My autism is only one aspect of my total character. It does not define me as a person. Are you a person with thoughts, feelings and many talents, or are you just fat (overweight), myopic (wear glasses) or klutzy (uncoordinated, not good at sports)? Those may be things that I see first when I meet you, but they are not necessarily what you are all about.As an adult, you have some control over how you define yourself. If you want to single out a single characteristic, you can make that known. As a child, I am still unfolding. Neither you nor I yet know what I may be capable of. Defining me by one characteristic runs the danger of setting up an expectation that may be too low. And if I get a sense that you don't think I "can do it," my natural response will be: Why try?

2. My sensory perceptions are disordered. Sensory integration may be the most difficult aspect of autism to understand, but it is arguably the most critical. It his means that the ordinary sights, sounds, smells, tastes and touches of everyday that you may not even notice can be downright painful for me. The very environment in which I have to live often seems hostile. I may appear withdrawn or belligerent to you but I am really just trying to defend myself. Here is why a "simple" trip to the grocery store may be hell for me:My hearing may be hyper-acute. Dozens of people are talking at once. The loudspeaker booms today's special. Musak whines from the sound system. Cash registers beep and cough, a coffee grinder is chugging. The meat cutter screeches, babies wail, carts creak, the fluorescent lighting hums. My brain can't filter all the input and I'm in overload!My sense of smell may be highly sensitive. The fish at the meat counter isn't quite fresh, the guy standing next to us hasn't showered today, the deli is handing out sausage samples, the baby in line ahead of us has a poopy diaper, they're mopping up pickles on aisle 3 with ammonia….I can't sort it all out. I am dangerously nauseated.

Because I am visually oriented (see more on this below), this may be my first sense to become overstimulated. The fluorescent light is not only too bright, it buzzes and hums. The room seems to pulsate and it hurts my eyes. The pulsating light bounces off everything and distorts what I am seeing -- the space seems to be constantly changing. There's glare from windows, too many items for me to be able to focus (I may compensate with "tunnel vision"), moving fans on the ceiling, so many bodies in constant motion. All this affects my vestibular and proprioceptive senses, and now I can't even tell where my body is in space.

3. Please remember to distinguish between won't (I choose not to) and can't (I am not able to).Receptive and expressive language and vocabulary can be major challenges for me. It isn't that I don't listen to instructions. It's that I can't understand you. When you call to me from across the room, this is what I hear: "*&^%$#@, Billy. #$%…" Instead, come speak directly to me in plain words: "Please put your book in your desk, Billy. It's time to go to lunch." This tells me what you want me to do and what is going to happen next. Now it is much easier for me to comply.

4. I am a concrete thinker. This means I interpret language very literally. It's very confusing for me when you say, "Hold your horses, cowboy!" when what you really mean is "Please stop running." Don't tell me something is a "piece of cake" when there is no dessert in sight and what you really mean is "this will be easy for you to do." When you say "Jamie really burned up the track," I see a kid playing with matches. Please just tell me "Jamie ran very fast."Idioms, puns, nuances, double entendres, inference, metaphors, allusions and sarcasm are lost on me.

5. Please be patient with my limited vocabulary. It's hard for me to tell you what I need when I don't know the words to describe my feelings. I may be hungry, frustrated, frightened or confused but right now those words are beyond my ability to express. Be alert for body language, withdrawal, agitation or other signs that something is wrong.Or, there's a flip side to this: I may sound like a "little professor" or movie star, rattling off words or whole scripts well beyond my developmental age. These are messages I have memorized from the world around me to compensate for my language deficits because I know I am expected to respond when spoken to. They may come from books, TV, the speech of other people. It is called "echolalia." I don't necessarily understand the context or the terminology I'm using. I just know that it gets me off the hook for coming up with a reply.

6. Because language is so difficult for me, I am very visually oriented. Please show me how to do something rather than just telling me. And please be prepared to show me many times. Lots of consistent repetition helps me learn.A visual schedule is extremely helpful as I move through my day. Like your PDA or day-timer, it relieves me of the stress of having to remember what comes next, makes for smooth transition between activities, helps me manage my time and meet your expectations.I won't lose the need for a visual schedule as I get older, but my "level of representation" may change. Before I can read, I need a visual schedule with photographs or simple drawings. As I get older, a combination of words and pictures may work, and later still, just words.

7. Please focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can't do. Like any other human, I can't learn in an environment where I'm constantly made to feel that I'm not good enough and that I need "fixing." Trying anything new when I am almost sure to be met with criticism, however "constructive," becomes something to be avoided. Look for my strengths and you will find them. There is more than one "right" way to do most things.

8. Please help me with social interactions. It may look like I don't want to play with the other kids on the playground, but sometimes it's just that I simply do not know how to start a conversation or enter a play situation. If you can encourage other children to invite me to join them at kickball or shooting baskets, it may be that I'm delighted to be included.I do best in structured play activities that have a clear beginning and end. I don't know how to "read" facial expressions, body language or the emotions of others, so I appreciate ongoing coaching in proper social responses. For example, if I laugh when Emily falls off the slide, it's not that I think it's funny. It's that I don't know the proper response. Teach me to say "Are you OK?"

9. Try to identify what triggers my meltdowns. Meltdowns, blow-ups, tantrums or whatever you want to call them are even more horrid for me than they are for you. They occur because one or more of my senses has gone into overload. If you can figure out why my meltdowns occur, they can be prevented. Keep a log noting times, settings, people, activities. A pattern may emerge.Try to remember that all behavior is a form of communication. It tells you, when my words cannot, how I perceive something that is happening in my environment.Parents, keep in mind as well: persistent behavior may have an underlying medical cause. Food allergies and sensitivities, sleep disorders and gastrointestinal problems can all have profound effects on behavior.

10. Love me unconditionally. Banish thoughts like, "If he would just……" and "Why can't she….." You did not fulfill every last expectation your parents had for you and you wouldn't like being constantly reminded of it. I did not choose to have autism. But remember that it is happening to me, not you. Without your support, my chances of successful, self-reliant adulthood are slim. With your support and guidance, the possibilities are broader than you might think. I promise you – I am worth it.And finally, three words: Patience. Patience. Patience. Work to view my autism as a different ability rather than a disability. Look past what you may see as limitations and see the gifts autism has given me. It may be true that I'm not good at eye contact or conversation, but have you noticed that I don't lie, cheat at games, tattle on my classmates or pass judgment on other people? Also true that I probably won't be the next Michael Jordan.

But with my attention to fine detail and capacity for extraordinary focus, I might be the next Einstein. Or Mozart. Or Van Gogh.They had autism, too.The answer to Alzheimer's, the enigma of extraterrestrial life -- what future achievements from today's children with autism, children like me, lie ahead?All that I might become won't happen without you as my foundation. Be my advocate, be my friend, and we'll see just how far I can go.*This was an excerpt from a book with the same title by Ellen Notbohm* (I bought her book already)"Special kids are given to special parents like us."

Visit my friend Jhet's site and see her cards,.. cuteness i tell you !

Ty Jhet for keeping me in your thoughts always and becoming my source of my inspiration as I begin this journey with Jorel,... I am blessed to call you my friend,.. at sana ma meet na kita,...

"Creative clutter is better than idle neatness."
Visit Jhet's blog at MY CRAFTS AND STUFFS
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check out my bantay (my little cutie guard)

2008-12-02T09:07:00.001+08:00

I took this last night experimenting on lighting on my camera when I chanced upon the shot with Jorel in the background.

He always waits for me before dozing off to sleep,.. he would sit there watch tv or if di na kaya -- will get me where I am in the room -- hold my hand and lead me to the room,.. cute no?

He is the loveliest I swear and is always snuggled up in bed with me -- hahah no space for his daddy for sure !... Just sharing this cute photo.

Thanks for looking.

A layout for my jorellie boy

2008-12-02T08:25:00.005+08:00

Title: You gave life new meaning

Materials:
Creative Imaginations Narratives Creme pps
Kraft/Fabriano Cardstock
Embl: Blings, Stazon black inks, Flocked chipboard letters, Provo rubon letters, CI die cut letters

Journalling:
You gave new meaning to my life. After Dad and I decided for you to be our last child – we had agonized over such a decision. However with GOD’s leading we knew it was the right thing to do – it was after all valuing life, mommy’s health and our family time. Dad and I are truly devoted to you 3 and what’s best for our family.

When I had you, I cried uncontrollably, real tears they were.... So did Dad too.. WE prayed for a healthy child. Now those tears don’t come anymore because I was MADE ready for you.
You came into our lives –the cutest smile, the nicest pair of eyes I have ever seen,.... There was something magical when your face broke into a smile and the way you cuddled us upon excitement. You began to draw us closer with those smiles. It was ones that wiped away my worries, uplift my low times and alleviated my fears. You gave new meaning to my life and have to taught me to value all my blessings, especially our FAMILY.

Now I know why we are here in Sydney – it is because – this is the place where you will truly shine... where we will learn to cling to each other for strength. I am so glad we didn’t stop at 2 or else I’d never experience being enriched by your presence..... I have become the kind of mom with patience, dedication and unconditional love.... thanks to you.. I love you JOREL....

Process:
These photos couldn't be cropped in my opinion. I wanted to show the series of heartwarming images as Jorel hugged me and enjoyed the day out with Dad and I. I wanted to capture his sweet nature. I wrote about his birth and our sentiments in my journalling for him. I kept the design as simple as can be. I created a pocket with the large photo to disguise my journalling tag.
This layout took only a while to do because all it needed was a nice presentation because the photographs spoke for itself

How do i find the time to scrap

2008-11-26T16:59:00.000+08:00

Mickee an old friend from NOWIES egroup asked me this question..
How do you find the time to scrap with your 3 boys?

And I repeated that question over and over again,...

And this is how I do it,... I start with an idea (during quiet time or say muni muni times),..
find my pics,... choose my pps and start cutting,.. the process is about mga 3 to 5 days depends on how intricate or how simple the layout is -- course the latter --- its easy lang so kahit 1 day kaya,..

the boys play heaps here at home so I can be cutting and supervising them at the same time.

The 2 older boys go to school and the youngest one go to preschool so I have ME time naman during the week,... that is in between chores, picking up kids from school, theraphy apmts, trip to the supermarket -- etc,..

I guess what makes it easy to try to scrap alongside all the rigors of domesticity is the committment and the love for the craft -- and also the vision that one day when my boys are bigger they will come to value what I have done. And I will treasure all their compliments of what I have recorded for them to read and see.. I know my memory will never be the same but my scrapbooks will speak for itself....

And of couse my ever supportive hubby has taken laundry away from me so that has freed me up some time too for ME time when the house is quiet and I can do anything that pleases me -- even for the shortest time.. thats pretty much what keeps me sane -- so he just lets me,...

Thankful

2008-11-23T05:33:00.000+08:00

I contributed this layout to the Pinoyscrapbookers challenge blog.... checkout out other great takes on this week's challenge at http://www.pinoyscrapbookers.blogspot.com.

This has to be one of the fastest no brainer layout I have ever done! I just saw ORANGE and thought.. why dont I do FALL layout look,.. even if the photo isn't for that season specifically. In a way, it was sorta connected with the tree patterns on the papers --- since the theme of the layout was about family growing together....

Distressing is one of the techniques I am not so into, to be honest. In fact there isnt much of that in this layout. And so to follow the specs of the week, I had ink all the edges of the photos, elements and accents using the Stazon ink. I am not tearer too of pps -- just too heartbreaking! So to do the actual tearing I had ruled a line using a craft knife with ruler and then used that as my guide to tear. To distress further I used ink and Krylon gold leaving pen for a border on the center of my layout. Lastly I mounted it on top of another pattterned paper for more emphasis.

Journaling:
Thankful for my family... grow together in LOVE. I will always be thankful that as you boys were growing up, Mom and Dad were always there for you. We saw all your milestones and seen your learn so many things. One day, you will all grow up but never forget the love we all share....how we are all connected with the bond and love we all have for one another.. Its what will keep us together - even if DISTANCE may separate us...

Materials used:
DCWV Fall glitter pps, DCWV Cardstock

Embellishments:
MM button brads, Bling, DCWV/Carolees letter stickers, Stazon Timber brown, Krylon Gold leafing pen

Photo taken by Jeff Lopez Photography (ty Tito Jeff!)

Together is a wonderful place to be

2008-11-22T09:58:00.000+08:00

Here's one to inspire couple layouts,... Very rare I do one for Patrick and I,.. good thing my children during our pictorial was busy enough to feed the ducks ( with Mcdo bread from burgers) and not fall into the pond. While Jorel was behave enough to be strapped into our stroller,... Our couple shots only took about 5 to 7 minutes,...
here's our (looks like) pre nuptial photographs then...

Title: Together is a wonderful place to be

Process: This may look like a complicated layout but I tell you -- it was just layering teh nicest prints on these Sassafrass papers,...I loved the vibrant colors on these pps that you hardl need much to complete my page. The MM ric rac paper just made it even better for a great background. I am so confident in using my own handwriting now and using the rainbow pattern as platform for my journalling.

Materials: Sassafrass Happy place pps, Making Memories Animal Crackers Jack Ricrac pp

Embellishments: Bling, Daisy d's/Carolees letter stickers, Cloud 9 design sentiments stickers

Tools: Staedler Triplus, Ek Success Cutterbee, Signo white pen

I am proud of you

2008-11-20T18:20:00.001+08:00

Each day you tend to surprise me -- by learning new things.. By simply just giving a reaction -- unexpected of YOU -- you just blow me away... I think its your way of reminding me to keep hoping, to keep believing -- that there will be a better tommorow and our pot of GOLD at the end of the rainbow will happen.

How amazing of you to teach me -- and I am supposed to be your parent,... you really are my special one, the one that will constantly open my eyes and open my world to the many things that I have always dismissed and fail to see,.....

You have watched your Kuya Jerome complete this puzzle in record time --and I know you have been eyeing it,... Slowly learning your way through it.. Lately you would form it together -- still at it ---- trying to complete it,.. I bet you anything...you will finish this puzzle soon.. only because you never give up and you just keep going on trying,.....

September Craziness

2008-11-14T13:12:00.001+08:00

without hubby knowing, I had bought myself with what I call a great bday gift last September of something I had really really wanted,.. Back 15 years ago -- the addiction was shoes and makeup -- I have been so over that since having a family and I would even agonize buying even amere blouse that's only 15 bucks,.. but I just love paper and this says it all -- this is how much I love it,... I went crazy,...

I bought this all (alongside some rubons at acherryontop.com) at one site because it was just so easy -- they categorized all the fancy edges/diecut edge pps in one place and it just was easy to shove it in one cart.. I didnt even bother to look at the shipping -- it was one day I felt I deserve to splurge since I am 24/7 on call domestic goddess here,... one day of craziness yes siree!

Back to regular programming -- need to resell older papers to move them in its stagnant state,.. even some of my dies -- I dont need them all I know,..... yeah yeah I know you guys are calling me crazy -- its one title I can accept -- wholeheartedly -- in the scrapbooking context that is,... bwhahhahahahhahahah!

Maiba tayo, someone just made teary and happy all at the same time today,... head on over her blog http://maansworld.blogspot.com/2008/11/touching-world.html... It warmed my heart so much,... Its nice to know ppl recognize what you are doing is right -- I know I need that once in while,.. just to boost my morale and keep me going,... ty Maan -- I am so blessed to call you my friend...

Here is an old layout...

2008-11-13T17:20:00.000+08:00

Title: Celebration
Materials:

Prima Dude pps, Bazzill cs

Embellishments: MM brads, Diamond glaze, KF/MM big brads, MM magnetic stamps, American crafts letter stickers, Signo white pen, BG rubons
Journalling:

Time flies, Jacob and Jerome celebrate their 4rth and 3rd bday.. we hope they cherish happy memories with family and friends.

Here is a layout of Jacob and Jerome's double celebration last Feb 2007 at Jollibee Greenmeadows. It was a no frill party --- the being it was just fast food but it was the most fun my kids had in their parties. All the guest came home happy with lots of loot and prizes....

Checkout my new layouts

2008-11-13T14:44:00.000+08:00

Just posting some layouts I had previously completed...

Reposting this first one because the first shots I had done, didnt give it justice. I so love this layout of Jorel and had so much fun creating this layout...

Title: Smiles
Materials: Kraft Cardstock, Fancy Pants About a boy pp, Prima blings, EK Success craft knife, craft foam, Uniball signo pen, Rubon (brand unknown), Stampin up whisper white pigment ink

Title: Special Bond
Materials: BG Offbeat & Diecuts
Embelllishments: SRm sticker, blings, prima bling, MM brands, Fancy pants rubons, Zig/Signo pen

Journalling: Daddy Patrick and Jacob, always close, always sharing private conversations, always playing around.. just never ending laughter.. something bound you together the day your were born Jacob.. whatever it is -- its simply magical...

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Title:Sweetie
Materials:
Daisy bucket playlist/Prima Dude pps
Bazzill Cs
Embellishments: KF Brads, MM big brads, Kelly Panacci rubons, KF stickers, Zig Pen, Doodlebug Frills, Cuttlebug Embossing folders

Journalling:

The real deal, because you are you...

Dad and you are best buddies,... Dad loves to play with you.... with your infectious smile and yoru intense laughter --- sweetie, he doenst have to say it -- just seeing you together warms my heart.. I am certainit your wonderful quirky laughter and uncanny character is what he loves most! always mom xoxo

Language of Love

2008-11-13T08:25:00.001+08:00

Journalling:
Only a mother would know what her child needs,.. even in the absence of words, I just know what you need by looking into your eyes and hearing your plea... It is perhaps the language of love that is present here that does not require spoken words to understand. I fervently pray to the Lord above that one day he can give you that gift my son. The day you finally tell us how much you love us and you finally call us Mom and Dad.. will definitely be the happiest days of our lives.....

Materials:
PP Rouge de Garance Daphnis & Chloe, Mod Design Blackbird Bird house

For template of Diecut paper was traced (K&CO BW Mira)

Embellishments/ Tools : Prima bling (and assorted blings), Prima Flower (paper & fabric), KF Jewel brads, MM Pewter heart brads, Joann Metal letters, Diamond Glaze, Krylon gold leafing pen,Tsukineko Brilliance Archival Pad-Moonlight white, Stampin up French Script, Carolees word play alpha stickers, Staedler triplus, Fiskars Embossing tooll and craft knife, Cuttlebug embossing folder for embossed look on corners, Autumn Leaves clear stamps for corner, Prima Paintables (cut and made into a frame)

Process:
I edited this photograph of Jorel and I using PICASA. I made use of a Prima Paintable to hone in on this photograph. I cut up the middle part and used it as a journalling card. Using the beautiful flowers and vines print of Rouge de Garance, I had precision cut and layered the. I combined it with Mod Designs flower design pp. I added prima paper and fabric flowers. It was a struggle to leave the blank space empty.

To resolve this, I stamped the page faintly with the Stamping up French Script using a white brilliance ink. And for extra dimension I used a Cuttlebug embossing folder with a Fiskars embossing tool to give the corners an impression. The background page was created by tracing the K & CO BW Mira paper on the blue Bazzill cs and cut with Fiskars craft knife (yeah I know crazy but I am in love with die cut papers at the moment!)

I submitted this layout for the 2nd of the Kaya Challenge. Its emphasizing negative space. I am unsure if I was able to follow because white space is not my thing,... its a struggle,...

My own little fairy tale

2008-11-11T06:40:00.000+08:00

I had bought these papers for a reason,... it never panned out,... inspiration was not there you see...

However these photos came along and the colors just matched to the perfection

I had chance to slice thru this paper again (and so goes the addiction bwhahhahah

Title: My own little Fairytale

Materials:

PP Bt Stella Ruby Drive in the country, BG Ambrosia, K&Co Urban Rhapsody
Embellishments: MM Glitter Thickers, Autumn leaves rubons, Joann Metal letters
MM Decorative brads, Ribbon, Staz on ink, Wooden swirls, Diamond Glaze,

Journalling:
Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.

Do you know the YAP BOYS?

2008-11-08T17:12:00.000+08:00

Just for fun,..

are you able to spot who's who in the photos....

which one is Jorel, Jerome or Jacob?

I just took these pics because for once in their lives they sat still for 30 minutes to watch their favorite train show, THOMAS,.. it was such sight to see them --- behaved, concentrated and leaving their mom alone,.... sheer bliss!

This is how our carpet looks everday --- lots of toys everywhere....................

LEAVE ME A MESSAGE IF YOU THINK YOU GOT IT,.......

Somebody just called me BALIW

2008-11-08T16:50:00.001+08:00

HHAHHAAHAH I am when it comes to my scrapbooking,... I live and breathe this hobby -- its been my life since 2002 -- alongside raising my family..... It is where I found my place in the world,... it is where I found precious friends too worth keeping forever,...

So anyway highway --- going back to BALIW -- yes LEE called me Baliw -- and it was of course said in a humorous manner... I am called a MASSACRE queen -- I buy and use paper to bits,.. I cut them ---layer it so you would never know when one line starts and another one ends...

In this case -- I had been trying to find ways to scrap faster. With another bunch of pictorial pics to tackle (alongside my huge backlog of pics for 3 boys), I had planned to attack them with simple layouts in mind. What works is a a simple formula of precision cut element (my own self made diecuts in 3d), borders and additional embellishments. So as I started one, it was swell -- I chose what i needed, then the layout process took a standstill. A portion was left empty... what do I put on the bottom of the layout? It took a good week till like a light bulb, Marj's idea to put a bow came on.

Then looking for ribbons bigger than 1.5 wide was a struggle. I just settled to muting this bright green lace ribbon with sheer ribbon and layered Prima flowers and voila! My problem was finally solved! I was just happy these pictures were finally down on a layout.

Special thanks to Master Iris for sending me the Webster's Pages. I had a great time cutting the words "Beautiful Inspirations" and the borders. I have to admit, it was like feeding an addiction. And the kind of HIGH I felt after,... it was bliss....

I submitted this layout the Kaya Challenge

Here is the layout:

Title: Beautiful Inspirations

Journaling:

Such a vision for all of us to be here... It is like these tender moments together, the precious embraces and sweet kisses are what I thrive for.... It is what inspires me to keep going, keep my courage up and forward to a new tomorrow.

Materials Used:

Webster Pages Beautiful line: Bee balm & bountiful, MME Vita bella line (green leaves), DCWV black CS, Ribbons and flowers from AMM scrap kits, blings, MM metal corner, transparency, Stazon ink.

Sign off from the massacre queen...

our JACOB

2008-11-07T18:22:00.001+08:00

Its been an on going line by Patrick when he stares at our first born ---- 'laki laki na ni JACOBO'... Its funny when he is in his persistent self --- you would never believe he was such a weak little baby, scrawny looking and so passive as a little baby. How time flies that our baby has grown into an active boy,.. still a little shy at times but quite the joker at home! These collection of pics really shows off how POGI he became from those scrawny birth pics. Jacob always had olive skin, with the reddest lips ever, very light brown hair and the softest skin I have ever touched in my life.... I even had to tell ppl he was boy when they had asked what my child was --- go figure -- he was wearing everything blue --- A DUH !

It was just by accident I came across his pictures that I had cut up with my CM circle cutter and matted a long time ago. It was among those to do layouts that never was....

True enough I was in a scrapping mood and finished it in less than 30 minutes. It even took that long bec I cut a portion of the page and ran it thru my embossing folder with my big shot machine (why? I dont know maybe for dimension hahahhaha! or OC lang ba ? addict kaya? ). Incidentally I have finally dug into my Urban Lily collection and used up aged old pps that was waiting for perfect pics (haahh all the ppsn I have are meant for those perfect photos !).....

Here is the result:
Title : So big so fast
Materials:
Urban Lily Extreme pps
Daisy d rubons, EK Success sticko stickers, Cuttlebug Embossing folders,
MM big brads, metal letters, Doodle bug buttons

No harm in sifting through old pics and pps and just collage them --- always works ! in record time too.....

I got this from my friend Jaz's blog

2008-11-05T10:39:00.000+08:00

Jaz has a son too, Zach --- who is also a special boy like Jorel,..

this was sent to her by a friend,.. just copying it here,... to share with you guys,... warmed my heart.. swelled my eyes with tears...

from Jaz's blog..
This poem was forwarded to me by one of my very good friends who has 3 young boys with autism. I broke down after reading this. Zach may not speak but his big brown eyes say it all and I am 100% certain that if he could speak, this is what he’d say…

BEFORE I GO TO SLEEPWritten by Sally Meyer 2000
Mommy, don’t you cry now and Daddy don’t you weep.I want to whisper something before I go to sleep.I know that when I came here I looked perfect in every way.And you were so proud, Daddy, when you held me on that day.And Mommy, when you kissed me and wrapped me up so tight, I knew that I belonged here and everything was right.But then I stopped talking and began to slip away,I saw your worried faces as you knelt by me to pray.And Daddy, I always notice how you wipe away a tearwhen you watch the other children as they run and laugh and cheer.I may not be able to tell you how much I love you so,or even show you how I feel and what I really know.But when you hold me, Mommy, at night when all is still,I feel the love you have for me and I know that all is well.And Daddy, when you take me to the park to run and playI know that you still love me, though the words I cannot say.I want to tell you something before I go to sleep.I may be sort of direct and you may not understand,I know that I am not that little child that you and Daddy planned.But I love you both so very much and I know you love me too,and if I could only speak my heart, you would feel my love for you.I know the future is unknown and you will always have to bethe ones who love and listen and take good care of me.I know that you are frightened and you shed so many tears,and if could, I’d wipe them dry and take away your fears.So Mommy, don’t you cry now and Daddy, please don’t weep.I want to say I love you both, before I go to sleep.

this is today....

2008-11-05T09:56:00.000+08:00

Being a mother never came with an instructional manual,... had their been one -- i think Oprah wil be first to endorse it and recommend to every mom on this earth... I just came from the doctors's office (3 boyd down with a virus) and they had asked me (for the nth time) if my kids Jacob and Jerome were twins. And again I had explained they were not twins but 11 months apart....

And of course they saw my children as they made a spectacle of themselves while we had waited.. they made a little chuckle and said " I must have my hands full with the 3 rugrats "... I had answered, yes of course especially now that the 3 are home and sick with fever and a bad throat.... I have had sleepless nights since Sunday as each boy came down with this bug going around my house.. Its a natural course that one by one they will get sick. Patrick said its was inevitable -- we all slept in one room of our 2 bedroom unit... its just a matter of time.. So yes today they are all running on low batt because of the fever and on antibiotics and panadol......

I am running on low batt myself -- nursing bad cold and a heavy head -- mahirap masarap talaga to be a mom,.... You want to rest but you cant.. I am just thankful my hubby is so helpful and no matter what I need -- he just does his best to support me and help me.. My hubby even had taken over the laundry.. During the winter I told him that my hands froze up and I couldnt be scrapbooking for long if my hands get athritis so -- by default he took over.... For now I have not even taken the job back --- he does it religiously and am always stuck with folding and fixing the wardrobe...among everything else in daily domesticity,.....

Oh I remembered to share with you guys, a moment I had had last OCT 27 when Jorel was being assessed at the Childrens Hospital.... The center also catered for different theraphys. As a mother I was so touched to see other children there -- some with physical disabilities that inhibit them to carry on normal lives. It was a far cry from my complaints when I let loose Jorel -- who is such an active 3 year old. I guess now I cant complain when he runs off and giggles so beautifully when I finally catch up with him. This cheeky nature was great reminder that I am still extra luckier to have had my son Jorel -- despite his delays -- he eats sleeps, runs, plays and giggles like every child his age... I have to really be thankful with what he can do and not be deterred by what he cant do just yet....... its because he can and he can eventually speak and do everything I want him to do -- its just a matter of time...i just need to more patient I guess....

thanks

2008-11-04T09:57:00.000+08:00

Thanks to GEM for sending me these beautiful words -- I know now -- this will be the words I will live by as I raise my sweetest boy JOREL,....

gem said......

hugs to you, joanne. jorel is lucky to have a mom like you. you are perfect for him. God is good, keep the faith. there is nothing that love can't conquer.

the day has finally come...

2008-11-04T04:32:00.003+08:00

Its been a long time coming,.. I have been waiting for this day... Knowing will not only alleviate my anxiety and worries but it will also help us move forward. Jorel's pending developmental assessment took awhile because the public system queue is very long. I had just tobe patient since its a free system and the Children's hospital is the best in Sydney.

It's is official, I am a mother of a special child. I had dreamt of how I would feel once its been confirmed. With my Special education background I had more or less diagnosed my own son, I knew that his developmental age was in the 1 to 2 years age bracket (and the test confirmed that).... He has mild to moderate autism, they refer to it as GLOBAL DEVELOPMENT DELAY. There were no tears, just maybe a huge relief -- it was like a weight over my shoulders were lifted. I had longed to know so we can move on, move forward to a brighter tommorow.

So far even after his diagnosis, everything had already been put to place. I had already put him in SPEECH and OCCUPATIONAL Theraphy. He is already at ABC preschool, finished all his blood tests. I had already queued him into the public system's Early intervention (fingers crossed he will ge a place January '09). How timely when I had gotten the results that I spoke to the Pendle Hill school principal and she had asked me to send over the paper to add to my application. I have called up a place called ASPECT -- a private early intervention group that is gov't subsidised as back up, in case he doesnt get into the public system.

During Jorel's Assessment at the Childrens Devt Unit at Westmead, the doctors and nurses were quite impressed with his gross and fine motor skills. His eye contact with us, his parents, were very consistent and he responded well to us. Of course he didnt respond much to them, as they were complete strangers but he was good enough not to cry. He only cried when we made him complete an OT task for testing. He was a cheerful and happy little child whilst we had discussed Jorel's case with Dr. Silove and other specialists there.

Patrick and I were patted on the back because we had already enforced our own early intervention at home and Jorel had developed a great interaction with us and his siblings. As a parent you think of that ---if you are doing enough or if you are helping him come out of his shell. I have to admit their affirmation meant the world to me, its because I had agonized over this, Iniisip ko minsan kung sapat ba ang ginagawa namin para sa kanya.

I keep thinking how GOD had prepared me for my special boy.. coincidence -- tell me how strange of a coincidence the series of events are --- its as if GOD had just put things in its proper perpective, one by one...
* I met hubby and needed a reason to stay in Manila -- I had gone to St. Scho to study EDUCATION because we had a preschool. Itook SPECIAL EDUCATION (1997) by default because I had no other course that was closely related to Elementary education.
* I had difficult pregnancies, even on my 3rd one with Jorel. However before I delivered him, Patrick and I were balling our eyes out as they wheeled me out to go to the delivery room. I even wrote a 'just incase' letter to hubby if anything had happened to me. It was such an emotional delivery. I was shaking before and after my delivery,...
* Patrick and I made a major decision to ligate so Jorel would be our last child since each pregnancy met with hypertension... Now we both agree it was a wise one not just medically (for me) -- because we can concentrate on our child's education from this day on. We do have 3 years till he goes to preschool... It is our hope he can develope communications skills by then.
* Patrick decided finally to leave for Australian in 2006 and in 2007 we migrated to O. Our arrival in OZ was just a few days before Jorel's 2nd bday when we left Manila.
* At 2 to 2. 5 years, I gave Jorel the chance to develop language and when he didn't I had began his tests with the pediatrician's advise.
* A few days before he turned 3 he was diagnosed with AUTISM... Patrick and I had been way ready to accept the diagnosis -- prepared na kami.... We just needed the piece of paper to state what we had to deal with and we are moving on --- hoping, believing and praying that GOD and our love for Jorel will help him cope and heal....

I am still so blessed to have Jorel. I have had to admit this out loud that among all my kids Jorel is the sweetest.. He gives you hugs and kisses all the time. I love the way he seeks me out when he wants me to help him with something. When he wants to sleep, he leads my hand and we walk hand in hand to the room and we lie down side by side. He expresses his delight with me embracing me ever so tight. I love the way he looks into my eyes and his face break into a beautiful smile. I love to hear his giggles and laughter and the way he shows me his cheeky look when he has done something... His face is so angelic, so sweet and so true.. God really planned to give my son Jorel to me, to love me forever and to make me feel like the luckiest mom in the world...

Sharing family pictures

2008-10-08T14:30:00.000+08:00

I am a blessed daughter in law,.. my in laws are just the kindest and most loving souls on this earth....

And the best of all is -- they are so generous to my children -- showering them with everything and most of all lotsa love and attention ... its is my hope I can do a quick mini album for them using these photos... Its my only way to say thanks for everything they do for my family....

The children requested to feed the ducks again at Nurrangingy Park and so armed with old bread and our breaky from Mcdonalds, braved a sunny day there...

Sharing a self portrait....

2008-10-06T18:55:00.001+08:00

yeah indulge me pls.. walang magawa si domestic goddess and took a pic of myself --- hahaha little vain dont you think... ok here it is.. any violent reactions hahahh just keep it to yourself bwhahahhahahah! (just trippin'!)

You want more layouts?.. I have got more simple layouts to share..

2008-10-04T05:43:00.000+08:00

Title: Sonshine Jorel Materials: BG Skate shop June bug/Alias, Daisy buckey play list (matting for Jorel), Embl: Doodlebug frills, Prima Bling, K & co Berry sweet diecuts, AC Glitter chipboard Thickers, Prima bling, Stampin up cocoa ink, Krylon gold leafing pen, Scenic route All boy Chipboard, Karen foster stickers, Karen Russell negative strip, ZIG black pen.

How ancient to finally use my BG Skate shop pps! on the left side of the page had J and R on the side and by stroke of luck there were isolated O E and Ls in the middle of the page and so I cut them to make the name JOREL. I matt them with Daisy Bucket pps in excess and used a gold leafing pen to outline.

I dont do photo shop so this is the closest thing -- i placed a sticker and I outlined it with blackpen -- it worked well on the b/w pic dont your think?
Since these photos are a series shot of Jorel -- the b/w pic is suppose to be my focal point on this layout. The left 6x12 of the background paper was cut (reattached it later) and embossed with Cuttlebug folders and same with the JOREL title.

Photo credit: Jeff Lopez Photography

Title: Smiles
Jounrnalling reads: Smiles are the soul's kisses
Materials: Kraft Cardstock, Fancy Pants About a boy pp, Prima blings, EK Success craft knife, craft foam, Uniball signo pen, Rubon (brand unknown), Stampin up whisper white pigment ink
Using rubons I framed various captions Jorel's picture and added bling to accent. The tranparency layers from Autumn Leaves come in 2x12 sizes but I cut it close to size to be able to play with it on on the page. Using the signo pen, I just doodle some dots to give it a little more emphasis.
Some part of the About a boy design were to nice to throw and so i cut them and u sed them as frame corner accents and matting
This is meant to be a a little 3d but of course the shot is blurry so you cant see as well. Lots of cutwork here. I then rubbed on pigment ink on the edges for a more dreamier look.

Snapshots of LOVE

2008-10-02T18:20:00.000+08:00

Title: Snapshots of love
Journalling: I love to take pictures of you. I follow you everywhere, just waiting to capture your unique personality. Its not always easy because you keep me running and sometimes youre not ina good mood. Hopefully you will thank me when you look back and see the years of photographs that I have snapped during heartwarming moments. Thank you for etching these precious images in my heart forever.

Materials MME Vita Bella d beautiful life, Ek Success Phrase Cafe/Adorn it Carolees rubons, Chatterbox Word Tags,
Finally I found a layout that I can use these Chatterbox wood tags which has been sitting in my stash for the longest time..
I cut a hole on the scroll design of the pattern paper and inserte a matted photo with metallic accent -- all cut from MME papers. The top right hand corner -- I added another vine design form the same Vita Bella papers. It was a little intricate but it took a while since I wanted it done perfectly.. I then adhered it to the page and then used the rubon.

My sweet little mini book

2008-09-30T08:03:00.000+08:00

This is a minibook I created of Jeff Lopez's beautiful pictorial of my family in Westgrove Heights, Silang Cavite. Sept 1 2007

I have been working on the layouts but I thought a mini can one day be on our mantle piece to show off these beautiful images. (when we have our own home here one day).

It has captured the love our family for each other and the last page caps it off as we leave our old home for greener pastures (OZ).... thus the photo going up the hill with our backs turned.

A simple mini with very little embellishments -- only stickers, rubons, and pattern paper.
However loaded with lotsa love and beautiful memories.
(I will cover it with transparency to protect this from dust and climate)

I didnt stress making this album infact these are pattern paper scraps from a 12x12 layout I did for Jorel (yet to be posted soon on this blog)

Title: Where there is love, there is LIFE.... Gandhi

I combined precision cuts from pattern paper with rubons -- this is pretty much the embellishments I had used for this project. I realised how pretty the pictures where -- it didnt need a very loaded page..

Materials:
Kaisercraft wood mini album
Fancy Pants about a boy pattern papers
DCWV/Bazzill pattern papers
KI Memories lace paper
Autumn leaves Rubons
Creative Imaginations Memories/Epoxy Stickers
Daisy D's stickers
EK Success craft knife, Helmar glue

Photo credit: Jeff Lopez Photography

Sharing more simple layouts

2008-09-29T13:20:00.004+08:00

Title: LIFE
Journalling: Life isnt always a walk in the park but never fear, mom and dad will always be here. To guide you, to teach you and to love you -- all the days of your life... love you romee!

Materials: Scenic Route Ashville papers, AC thickers letters, Alpha metal letters, Prima Bling, MM clear creations transparency, Twill, Fiskars punchers , AC rubons, Provocraft beads, Derivan glitter, Tranparency for stain glass effect, Staz on ink.

I played around with the Ashville papers and created a stain glass effect using transparency. I cut the vines and attach the transparency at the back and overlapping with another patterned paper. I wanted a dreamy feel to this layout and the stain glass element helped do that.

Title: A Dad's Love

Journalling: You cant look thourgh this book without realizing how much I love you but dont underestimate the love that your dad also has for you! Your father has a soft place in his heart for you but he expresses his feelings differently. I use my scrapbook to tell you my thoughts. Your dad may not write in a special book but he reveals his love for you in other ways that may not always be visible. (Phrase cafe rub on)

Materials: Prima Marketing Romantico, Ki Lace Ppaer, DCWV cs, EK Success Phrase cafe/ Fancy Pants/BG rubons rubons, MM brads, Doodlebug frills, blings, Krylon Gold leafing pen, Stazon black ink, foam for 3d, craft knife.
Prima papers are just beautiful in itself and it was perfect canvas for a simple lo for my son's pics with Daddy Pat. I used a Hambly frame for more focus of Jerome and daddy PAT. The layout turned out great --- simple!

Title: BIG KID

Journalling: How hard to take photos of you -- always making faces -- pulling stunts -- typical kid . Tito Jeff managed to get great shots of you as a plane passed by -- finally we got one. I amazed my fragile infant has grown from measley 5 lbs to am active little boy -- I love you cutee boy!

Materials:
Daisy Bucket Playlist pps, DCWV cs
Creative Imaginations/Mambi/Reminisce Stickers
MM floss, Misc ric rac,ribbon, foam and zigpen

I am not an embellishing person -- such a struggle but I managed to clusster pps ribbon and buttons here.. even using it up stickers stash...

I always collage pictures and failing to hone in on a focal point so I opted to stitch and use buttons to have a focus.. hope its worked....

(photo credit: Jeff Lopez Photography)

I have been very diligent... promise....

2008-09-16T06:24:00.000+08:00

Even in my busy days, I am trying to create my layouts for my children... it is something I am trying to get used to considering -- there are no househelp here in OZ. So the only names my children know to call is MOM and DAD....

I have been very diligent but indeed practical in creating my pages now. And I am proud of my new pages because they are quick and simple pages. And 10x times proud of myself because I have sifted through old materials and used it.. from paper to stickers to embellies.. I came to a strong realisation that my hoarding has to stop. I feel like scrap stuff are like candy/chocolate the more I buy them -- the more I salivate to get more... its just seems to not end right ? So need to curb spending, Xmas is just around the corner...

So here are some simple pages -- cut and paste is my thing inspired by scrappers like Michelle who just scraps with no pressure.... Like the NIKE catch cry says 'JUST DO IT'..

Am not to shy to say the next pages you will see of mine are so beautiful in my eyes.. I have gone back to muti photo layouts now. I cant get used to the one photo layouts -- feeling ko sayang... (this is why I am in admiration to those who can do only one photo layouts --- and can take the white spaces because I personally cant)..

Here's the layouts to show (I have more just havent had time to take pics haaay..) of my cut and paste episodes.. do tune in I might just have enough time to take pics of my other layouts -- if the children permit me to do so...

Title: My family of boys

Materials used: Autumn Leaves pp, KI memeories lace paper, DCWV cs, Prima bling, Fiskars puncher, various rubons by Daisy d's, American Crafts, Adorn it, butterfly blings. transparency for mouting of the rubons and foam for 3d

You gotta love fiskars punchers -- I hope my rest of the stash punchers fly to Sydney soon. I use the KI Memories lace paper to create a frame on my photo here...
Mounted the rubons on transparencies for them to pop on the pages -- and added matting in orange...I was kinda' funny using the smiles rub on bec it was in purple.. but the colors tied together anyway... I dont use a lot of PRIMA bling on my pages -- but this time I couldnt stop.. but I had too or else the page will be over done already... I couldnt leave this owl alone without life so I revived him, cut him up and made him 3d -- he looks kinda cute, FAT dont you think ?
Title: You and Me

Materials: Autumn leaves pp, Ki Lace paper, DCWV cs for title, Gel a tin stamps for title Cloud 9 stickers for tittle, Staz on ink, ZIG pen , Rub on for title

This my cut and paste layout -- the paper is just beautiful so I just lifted the flowers ont he left handside of the PP. I added the Cloud 9 title, cut it up a little and added bling.. there is pretty much nothing to do on this but stick it on.. its not bad hey... I love this pic of Pat and I.

Poem reads: " And in the end, its not the years in your life that count, its the life in your years."

Here is a sneak peek of a simple mini album (Kaisercraft album using Fancy pants boy pps) I made and sharing at the KAYA PS challenge blog.. will give you a glimpse of it and post it later in full in this blog.........
(Photo credit goes to my favorite photog, Jeff Lopez -- ty big time !)

My great hubby reset my scrap nook to a scrap corner before my birthday. My father you see gave me a PC as birthday present and with my inlaws coming, my scrap stuff had to go out of the 2nd bedroom. So he rewired everything -- help me take things out and now... I have my scrap corner office..

I love it because I can be working and minding the children while they play in the living room (I will post pics very soon ok) Another plus is my CLIP it by Renee came and even its just base for now (the top part coming in the mail from the US as we speak).... I can finally see my over flowing stickers, chipboard and rubons!....

My friends saw this on the weekend and think my scrap corner looks like a store? Gawd! I would love a store like scrap room thats for sure --- ok ok when I win lotto ok ? Will post pics when my scrap corner office is complete -- expecting my USPS boxes this week you see.. I want it all set up for sharing with you guys....

Its another birthday for the domestic goddess!

2008-09-14T08:51:00.000+08:00

Oooh wow -- another birthday has passed 3 children later and 7 days on call for them -- yes I am 37 and loving life.. yeah I may whinge and complain at times -- but I am RIGHT where I am.

I had a lunch party yesterday with my great friends and their respective families... and of course, the day will not be complete unless we pose for our pictures... they know I scrapbook

and they made sure we had the day covered...

I am blessed to have friends like these girls.... that despite a 10 year absence they have welcomed me back into Sydney with open arms. I am truly grateful that when I need a friend to cry on, someone to boost my confidence and when I just need someone to talk to -- I can call on them anytime. My friends are the precious gems of my life and they give me strength in coping with motherhood and life in general. I thank the LORD for them. Masarap ang mga kaibigan na nandyan para sa iyo kahit matagal na kayo di nagkakasma. And when you are together -- you just pick up where you left off. Cata, Glynda, Aileen and Gliselle --- i love you all and I love the friendship we have nurtured over the years... we will be all together in our golden girl years... thats a promise !

here are some photos of yesterdays fun day where even our kids just had a blast,

laughing, playing together (never mind the excess pounds we gained from the

main dishes and scrumptious deserts!)....

here are my pretty girlfriends, Glynda, Gliselle, ME, Ailleen and Catherine and below are Cathy's little Caitlin and Aileen's lil Raffy (my inaanak)....

Again the pretty girls with my Jacobee wanting to get into the shot !

Checkout my new hair do.. I vow to go and get my salon fix every 3 weeks -- its a promise to make to give myself some ME time.....

a few pounds & years later --- finally reunited...

2008-09-01T12:38:00.001+08:00

It sure is fantastic to be in touch with my girlfriends again.... Cathy, Glynda and Gliselle finally met up again after 10 or so year of being complete again..... Time sure has changed all of us, a little chubbier but still all HOT mamas!

Its good to finally sit down and have a meal -- and move on to the future... and catch up with each others news.....I always told Cathy we want to be all together till we are golden girls -- comparing notes about life and defyingn the aging process hahhahahahahh!

here are beautiful snapsots of that fun evening -- it wont certainly be the last surely!

just some updates

2008-08-28T13:47:00.001+08:00

been slacking off on this blog,.. just so many things going on... here's whats been keeping me the past weeks...

Parents were here in Sydney and has left again to go back to Singapore,.... they wil be back briefly on the end of NOV. for a wedding to attend to.. Papa is a principal sponsor... only for a week though then to Sing. then Manila for my uncle's wedding and a close family friend all in one day too.. then 21st of December back in SYDNEY for more time with our family..

I have been cleaning too because inlaws are coming on the 16th Sept, with father in law, staying for 2 weeks and MIL staying for 6 weeks.. I hope there stay here will be fun and fruitful (hint hint uhhh uhhhh new house kaya?).... We are taking them to Canberra and maybe QLD for tropical weather and swimming (I just need to twist hubby's hand to spend the $$$$$)...

As for the kids I finally got my appointments at the CDU for Jorel's dev't assessment (OCT 27)and Jerome's intellectual assessment(NOV 3)... For Jorel's case, its SOP to do this because he hasnt began speaking... However some nice devts on him -- more interaction, more eye contact, and more noisier than ever.. I am claiming it he will speak in due time -- in GOD's time... Fr Suarez prayed over him and I will believe that its GOD's divine hand that will help my son develop better and faster in the coming years. I have more hope now and more belief in the power of PRAYER... nasa diyos ang awa (at pag-asa) at nasa tao ang gawa..... So on my end, theraphy and tutoring will really help him heaps....

For Jerome, I am being over acting here to get him assessed too.. he is in fact blooming in preschool and speech theraphy and so I have no doubt he will catch up... but to be on the safe side, an intellectual assessment is what I had asked for him. At least if I see some delay or if he needs help -- his School can get support for him til he can cope...

Just some kwentos about my kids -- I forgot to mention this here ---- I finally succumb to retail theraphy and bought a pair of boots (knee hi)... it was on sale at 100 bucks from 150 bucks .... i didnt bother to think of the price because my toes were so frozen each time I had gone out.... esp in the evenings... So anyway I was taking the kids to the mall and I had worn my slippers goin down from unit and changed my shoes when the kids were already strapped in their seatbelts..

I told the boys 'Look at moms shoes, isnt it nice?'.

Jacob goes "Mom why are you wearing that, are you a COWBOY?"

I was just shocked and I giggled and told him I wasn't....

Then Jerome goes 'Mom are you a fire fighter?'

So i told them I was neither a fireman or a cowboy, I was just always cold and needed warm shoes for the winter.... GO FIGURE -- where they get these things?

I have been a bad bad scrapper... I have finished projects but havent moved my butt to take pics of them..... I should you know, to test the NEW PC (Papa gave us an advance bday gift to me) and its colors on my pics... The laptop was driving me crazy because when I adjust color temp on my pics -- it appears too red on my prints.... Its also high time I learned photoshop with all the automatic stuff you can download on net to make editing a breeze (such a technophobic)......My friend Joel C. promised to help me learn its basics....

I have 5 layouts to upload and a MINI yes a MINi! I am not ashamed to say it a nice little piece too esp with the pics JEFF took last year (thanks to him -- I cant stop scrapping our pictorial dami pang pics to scrap you know !)..... Its been a slow productive time for me but I am proud to finally delve into my older stash and be rid of the idea of using only new stuff... syang eh...

Good news too Fantasia is allowing me to do my class with my group at their store.... so I went there to find materials so I can get them to approve the project and cost it out... They had a sign for casual help there too and I am thinking may be to apply too... However I need to find out if its going to affect my centrelink payments too... I have to look into it for now....

I leave you with some pics I love in our recent pictorial, that I havent had the chance to post.... I am sure you would leap for joy too once you see them... The kids loved this so much --- they were laughing and giggling, so I was just more than willing to jump high for them! (and never mind if mama looks kinda silly!)

This was just a great photo with Jerome -- he is my sweetie boy, loves to kiss mom - for how long do i ask..... eh si Jacob nga has a crush na eh.... and he has invited her to come to our house to play! Tommorow is the first day (DATE?).....

Finally a little ray of sunshine

2008-08-04T20:37:00.000+08:00

The unbelievable weather was matching my so so moods the past weeks but finally a ray of sunshine to uplift my spirits.

I have been quietly praying to have another pictorial of the kids,.... yeah another one --- something about seeing my children captured in photographs that reminds me --- I am doing something right for them.. And that I am doing somewhat a good job raising them with my husband. So here's maybe something to perhaps make you smile too -- because I have to tell you it has really given me that and more... a great boost to start anew and be stronger in facing tommorow's challenges.

Good news is my parents are here for a month from Singapore - nothing like mom and pop to make me feel more at ease.... you gotta love them.. Of course Mom came home with nice goodies for me.. even handcarrying some Scrap goodies from fellow Scrappin Moms April Lim....

Somehow all this grey skies are in the clear and I am trying my very best to focus and be strong enough for what lies ahead....

(last photo is of our Photographer from Manila Jason De Guzman of Image nation.... He was wonderful with the kids and great with our shots ! So good I had them printed today and the photo shoot was just yesterday...)

Am back to a scrap nook...

2008-07-21T05:56:00.001+08:00

I finally found the time to upload some of my pics from my cam to the laptop....

Its been tricky the past months working on my pages having to do it on the floor or the dining table... I end up making a mess and having to vacuum it because of the constant moving and shuffling of things -- I have to keep moving my artbin anywhere I can cut and anywhere I can work while watching the boys....

I am hoping I can finally get the time to find a table and some extra shelves because my present shelves are busting out it seams.. I miss my spacious scrap area in Manila.... it was a dream of a room.... now its a just back to a corner of the room where everything is stowed away. Its organized but takes longer to find things when I am working. I am a visual person I want to be able to see things in one scan and have it right at my finger tips.. I guess with time constraints to even sit on the computer, sitting to work on my pages is just last on my priority list these days (I guess some of you read of my last post -- this is why.... :( ..........)

Here are some of my scrap area shots -- pardon the blurred shots --- I had a little elf move around the time I was taking these..... check him out -- he is so cute ! When I work he is always just next to me there like my little shadow he loves to fiddle with my things and check out pictures and our album

In his perfect time

2008-07-18T17:00:00.002+08:00

It been awhile since I have been actively doing anything, whether it scrapping, updating this blog, visiting my egroups... things havent been the BEST... and I have been carrying this load on my back.... I have kept quiet (with the exception of trusted friends) about everything thats is going on with me, because the family has been dealing with it all. Everyone has been rallying to stay strong and face head on the challenges life in Australia has brought upon us.

To date, we are coping with the changes, the children are doing ok here. You know.....I would always be asked as to why we gave up our comfortable life in Manila to say 'rough it out' here in Sydney.... We are not rich but we have lead a comfortable life there. I am not ashamed to say I have gotten used to my routines and the team behind runnning our household (esp my Yaya Belle -- whom I miss so much!)..... So when asked as we began life here -- why we left -- I would have an automatic answer of saying "its for the kids future".

Its not to say, there's no truth in that statement -- we will not even decide this if not for the kids.. God has his perfect way of stressing my statement and before my eyes have really told me ---why we totally relocated our life here.... Its been an eye opening experience and NOW I will never look back to say it was ever wrong to do all this --- I have been affirmed that we are where we should be....

With the kids in kinder and pre school. I really wanted to make sure they were on the right track. If they were adjusting and coping well with a big school and a totally different environment.

First up was Jacob. I thought all the while he was doing great, but I realised later that he wasnt paying attention in school. His teacher had difficulty getting him to sit down and pay attention. I am not sure if the distraction comes from his seatmates or he just doesnt respond well to his teacher. Anyway after his mid year report card came out and our PTA was set up, the teacher has reported that he has slowly been interacting and had increased cooperation with his teacher. I am praying by Year 1 he has developed socially and can be more attentive to his teacher and studies. I have started him to do Kumon to help him with concentration and fine motor skills. To date he is one of the faster readers in class. I am praying he can apply himself more because he is a very bright child who has a very wide imagination.... I hope he can mature more in the coming months.

Then there is Jerome. He is my late bloomer in chatter dept.(spoke at age 3) but far advanced in social interaction. I call him my litle social butterfly because he breezed through adjustment in pre school like a PRO... The teacher raised the concern though, if he communicates well with me and I said yes.. I knew he was needing a SPEECH assessment and that I did. At present he is doing the theraphy to beef up his comprehension skills. He has improved in leaps and bounds. His teacher Mrs Wierzbicki and Ms Paulette has commented he does speak in short sentences now and communicates so much better with them and his classmates. He will move on to KINDY next year but thank GOD for Australia being so supportive of EDUCATION, I will inform his school about his speech theraphy and there will be funding to help him cope during the school year. He is only 5 by JAN 09, so we have a year next year to put him up to speed with theraphy and KINDY class to prepare him better for PRIMARY SCHOOL

Now for Jorel. I have been monitoring his speech dev't since we arrived here last OCT.07 because of my experience with Jerome. I waited till he was 2.5 years old till I started seeing my Pedia and began the series of tests in JUNE.... At present he has finished his blood/hearing/speech assessment test. To open up social interaction with other kids, we have started him with 2 days in preschool at ABC and began his speech theraphy. At this point I am also going to take him to Occupational Theraphy too to teach him play skills and assist his gross and fine motor skills....I have been also referred to bring him to a playgroup with kids (and parents) who are going through the same situation as my son. I know he and I will benefit in that tremendously... I have also put him on the list for EARLY intervention next year to help him get started..... Fingers crossed he gets a a spot...

Of course as I say this, it may seem I am so calm and collected. I am super ok now with the 2 older boys because time and maturity will solve their issues. My youngest son Jorel's situation is what makes my heart bleed. I did SPED in college and so I am so open to this but never in my dreams did I ever realise it will be this close to home.

I have been agonizing over waiting and waiting for his final test at the Childrens hospital, for developmental assessment... Not knowing whether he is a special child is causing me anxiety,...I am a true VIRGO - I hate now not knowing and not having an action plan.... it has gotten my temper flaring and I feel so sad for my 2 other kids who have to bear with my swinging moods. However I am human, I am not perfect, I am not the worlds best mom... This is my son, this is my last child, I know I have a great journey to travel with him and I am hoping that GOD will give me the strength and the will to keep going and to carry on all the trials that come our way.

I havent really cried hard about it --- just that its in my head all the time.. I wake up in the middle of the night --- thinking about it, worrying about it and agonizing over it. I guess you cant blame ME -- when this boy hugs and kisses you all the time (so loving...) you would really melt thinking - what can you do for him - how can you make his life better. As a parent, I want the best for him and I want so much to help him. I guess moving like what I have are my baby steps to help him but I pray hard that it will help him......

I guess you take it for granted when your kids blabber and scream at the top of their lungs... and here I am for Jorel waiting for the day he will call me ' MOM'.. thats my only fervent wish now --- IN GOD's perfect time...

So now when people ask me why we moved to Sydney -- it is with mind and heart I say -- for the Children's future,... for a better life for them.....

Good news

2008-06-26T11:36:00.000+08:00

I just got off the phone and spoke to Karent of Fantasia here in Bella Vista... and they have accepted me to become one of their design team in the store.

You cant imagine how over joyed I am - finally a stint at an LSS - where I can goto and become a part of,....

I am so excited. I hope they will appreciate my work.. finally a community I can join here.... its a new a beggining...

here is the link to this LSS
http://www.fantasia.com.au/

tickled pink !

Talk about prolific !

2008-06-13T14:18:00.000+08:00

Talk about prolific -- I can't for the life of me do layouts in one hour ---- but things change --- hahah I have done it ! here are my new layouts !These 3 layouts has evolved using a few common things: Cherry Arte Tropics pattern paper (blue/yellow/pink/green pattern) and different borders. The theme of these layouts is JOURNEY.

1) Title: Dont forget to dream
Journey of my 3 boys: Jacob, Jerome and Jorel A layout to encourage to dream far and wide, to try to fulfill their dreams as they begin life...
Materials: Fancy Pants rubons, Cherry Arte Tropics pp, Prima frame stamps, craft knife, Staz on ink

2) Title: 7 years

Journey of my husband and I, as a married couple A layout to show what we have accomplished in our seven years of marriage: good and blissful family life, 3 wonderful boys, a nice house and great relationship with our inlaws

Materials:Cherry Arte Tropics/Urbanlily/Rouge de Garance pp, Signo white pen, craft knife,Vellum caption, American craft sticker letter, Doodle bug frills

3) Title: Sunshine Joshua
Journey of my nephew Joshua

It's a layout of Joshua at 3 when he began some tests to find out why he hasn't began speaking. After all that, we did find out he is a special child and to date we have been praying for a miracle for him to connect with all of us....

Materials: Cherry Arte Tropics/Salsa celebration pp, Scenic Route chipboard frame, Adirondack paint, Heidi swapp flowers, craft knife, Kindy glitz glitter, Signo pen, Provocraft stickers, Doodlebug frills

Here's my poor attempt at cards -- am so card challenged !

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Mommy JO to Jacob, Jerome and Jorel
Happy wife to Patrick for 8 years
Scrapbooking blissfully for 6 years

How do you know when to stop

2008-06-10T15:17:00.000+08:00

Title: Live a good life

Materials: Crate pps, Bazzill cs, Cosmo cricket chipboard, Darice foam, Diamond glaze, Bling

I bought this pattern paper by Crate paper from Fantasia in Bella Vista about 3 weeks ago and as soon as I took it home - I mutilated it -- I was just in love with the flowers I couldnt wait to cut it up..

I even finished the layout with in the nxt day of having the floral elements ready --- but procastinated on it thinking of what else it needs.... go figure.....

Here it is -- after I agonized over it -- and even asked Candy should I put eyelets or ribbon or what -- and she said -- leave it be.... and so I did -- ty cands! You have to know really when to stop -- even though its killing you to think what it still needs -- enough is enough hhahahha!

Here is 2 pager I did in a day -- simple cut and paste thing

My simple Christening projects

2008-06-07T18:43:00.001+08:00

How nice of Angie of Scrapscene to visit my blog and feature one project I did in a hurry - oh gosh this was quick one for my dear old sis..... Gosh I did this as a labor of love for my new niece--- I know I need practice on this part, because I know crafting can be combined with baking. I just need to try those Betty Crocker mixes and buy a Wilton decorating set(its in my wishlist already) from Joann.com and then use Big shots to do personalized toppers.. ok I have few months to figure it out --- hmmmm I hope I have time for it... its crazy enough here as it is....

I made 80 fridge magnets for my niece's souvineers, about 25 or so centerpieces (gotta love those Sizzix daisy dies using foam, w/ some yummy lollipops set in chinese takeout boxes) and the layout which willl be the title page of Jacinta's christening album.

Anyway here is the link:
http://www.scrapscene.com/2008/06/scrapbooking-other-paper-cake-toppers.html

Scrapbooking & Other Paper Cake Toppers
I had never thought of making a paper decoration to be used as a cake topper until I stumbled across these unique ideas. Any of these would be a fun addition to a centrepiece or real cake at a party! Take a look!

Joanne Yap has a neat idea for decorating a cake. She made a scrapbook page and put it on top of a cake as a cake topper! See photo at left from a Christening party. You can go to Joanne’s blog post here to learn more about it.

This pretty cake topper was actually used on a wedding cake! Photo at right. It was made with vintage elements by Ashley Carter of Goldbug Studios and went on Muriel’s wedding cake.

Here’s another nice wedding cake topper idea by Maminka Girl. In this case, the whole cake is out of paper. What a nice centrepiece this would make for a reception or rehearsal dinner even.

Another interesting idea is to make mini cake toppers for cupcakes like PeptoGirl shows in a tutorial here.

June Scrap with V class kit

2008-06-06T15:02:00.000+08:00

Head on over the Scrap with V site and checkout the new class kits.

Link: www.scrapwithv.com.au

Here is my June contribution:

Title: Treasure the good times

Materials: Sandy Lion papers, Bazzill CS, Ki Memories lace papers, Finishing Touches rubons (rub on transparency), Heidi Swapp clear stamp/flowers, Staz on inks, Zig pen, brads, book plates, metal swirls, ribbons and scallop ruler for template, foam for dimension on treasure and craft knife for making it 3d.

The family photo is a repeat for this layout -- I figured I need another one for the 3 boys to have in their own albums.

I did something different to this layout.. I wonder if anyone can spot it.... I think only the photographer can tell.. but I would really be suprised if some one can guess what I did on this layout..... too bad I am not the best person to take pics of layouts...

Joining contests....

2008-06-06T13:56:00.001+08:00

It is extremely rare for me to join contests -- very rare, I only do it when I know a layout I have done is apt for the contest specs.

I dont really announce wins because like I said, its rare I join and I really only do it for the prize (si candy kasi sinabi pa ehhhahhaha! nabisto tuloy ako hahahahh!). I guess it doenst excite me as much --unlike my recent DT application at the LSS Fantasia at Bella Vista (no word yet,... gosh suspense is killing me) which I really want to bag....

here is the layout that won a little challenge from FISKARS, Australia.

here is the email from Fiskars
Hi Joanne,
Here is the link to the winner of the challenge. Looks like it was you.
http://fiskarscraft.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/04/april-challen-1.html
I will look into why the challenge galleries haven't been updated.
Have you received your prize for the challenge?
Thanks
Dawn Stan
Lead Fiskars Craft Ambassador

Here's what the Blog post said:

April 17, 2008
April Challenge Winner
HI everyone,

Popped in to announce the winner of this month's challenge - wowee there were some lovely entires :) Beautiful :0) I was suitably impressed lol! and a bit emabarressed cause they were all better than mine :0) It was difficult to decide actually. Thanks so much for giving it a go :0)

Anyway... without further adue ... drum roll please.. the winner is...Joanne Yap with ''ready mom' (obviously a US entry :) - cute :) ) It is a GREAT lo - love it- with a great use of holes :) Love the colours, the design and of course, the use of holes :)

So yay for Joanne :) You will recieve a great prize (a packet of eyelet setters and some consumables) from Fiskars for your effort (Joanne can you please use the 'contact us' button to send us your details? Thanks).

Thanks everyone who gave it a go :)

HAve a great week - school holidays for me :0) Much needed rest for a busy homeschooling Mum here :0)

Smiles,
Mishellxx

Then there was one small challenge from Scrap for a cure and this layout won,....
People have told me this is a good layout and even Katie Hilbert asked to post this in the daily of Memory Makers online page ideas and as well as in the newsletter sent to subscribers.

Here is the email from Katie.

Katie Hilbert wrote:

Thanks, Joanne.

I've scheduled your "Celebrating With You" layout as the featured idea for Memory Makers Online Idea Gallery (http://www.memorymakersmagazine.com/page_ideas.aspx) for May 24.

I might also feature your idea in the “memory project ideas” e-mail that we send to subscribers. If you haven't already done so, you can sign up for this free service at MemoryMakersMagazine.com . Just enter your e-mail address under the “Inspiring New Page Ideas”—located in the upper part of the left-hand column.

Thank you for sharing your artwork with us.

Sincerely,

Katie Hilbert
Associate editor
Memory Makers magazine

hahahah Patrick became a little excited about this and asked if this is paid and I said no... I told him it was great enough to see someone liking my layout -- my day is simply made!

There is somewhere I tried my luck in doing some work for. To date I have been narrowed down to the short list. I am sending over this layout to them. I hope they like it.
TITLE: OUR JOURNEY

Materials: Rusty Pickle Lucky PAPERs, Prima BLINGS, MM Decorative/Bazzill/Karen Foster Jewel brads, Bazzill bling cardstock, Sizzlits die cuts for title, American Craft rub on letters, Fancy Pants Rub-on (for poem apt for Journey), 7gypsies tag for hidden journalling.

Photo taken by Magnifico photographer --- JEFF LOPEZ.

Journalling: One day you boys will ask why we left PHILIPPINES to move to Sydney. Simply put my kids, its for your future. Daddy & I want to give you every opportunity possible in Australia. We want you to grow up to be good & very independent boys. Australia will surely bring out your best talents. We are certain that despite the sacrfices to start over, our bond shall strengthen our family. No obstacle too great as long as we work together and become a real team.....

Pardon the picture of this layout -- its been so cloudy and rainy here in OZ and I cant go out to take pics of this layout. Give it the justice it deserves. I am still experimenting on my Olympus and still have not had great success on it--- hit and miss i say!

2008-05-31T07:25:00.000+08:00

using PIKNIK

2008-05-30T06:57:00.000+08:00

I am not an editing person but am trying my best to learn and tweak little things to improve pics -- dabbled on colors on 2nd photo and gave us a little highlight (disguise the wrinkles hahaha!)..

Can you tell the difference.. duno if my computer is calibrated to show its real colors...

Jacinta's christening pictures

2008-05-25T06:46:00.004+08:00

I made this layout to be cake topper -- simple and a mad rush to finish - will use it for her album. I made lollipop flowers with sizzix daisy diecuts (20 plus centerpieces) and made frame fridge magnets for souvineers (80pcs)
Figueroa cousins AJ and Jessica with Jerome and Jacob
Can you imagine how hard it was to take this photo with the boys -- its such a struggle to even try we just gave up !
At the church with Mama, Jovy, Jacinta, Joanna, my bil John and ME
Take 2 portrait full shot
Its nice to take pictures with the Figueroa family.
Godparents including Hubby Patrick
Tres Marias and wow -- what pret ty pic too!

A proud moment...

2008-05-07T11:19:00.000+08:00

I am loving the way I create now because I just feel so free and feel so excited each time I scrap. Is it the Sydney air?

Is it the idea of 'no holds barred scrapping' -- duno what ever it is -- its working.

I seem to be in the ' imagining in my head - planning the page - choosing photo and paper' mojo and so here is one layout that I exceptionally love..........

(Guys, you gotta be ready -- this pictorial was done by Jeff Lopez last year and gosh -- you have to stop me doing layouts on this photographs because - gosh my children was just absolutely gorgeous - I owe you big time JEFF for really bringing the best out of my kids!)

Title: Sweet moments

Materials: Pattern papers: Rouge De Garance, MOD Design, Fancy pants, Urban Lily. Embellishements: Craft Express rubons, Cosmo Cricket chipboard title, Blings, Darice Foam

Scrap with V Class Kits

2008-05-07T10:14:00.003+08:00

Here are my layouts for my MAY Scrap with V class kit.
They are simple layouts for any level to do, so head on over the site, http://www.scrapwithv.com.au/ to check all the MAY kits available.
My friend Ness who owns the store says the MAY kits are selling fast....

Title: Son Shine

Materials:

Bazzill cardstock

Pattern paper:,

7 gypsies pattern paper

Embellishments: Doodlebug buttons, American Crafts rubons, Making memories page pebbles, Sizzlits buttons diecuts, Creative hands foam

This is a simple layout for Jorel who posed well at a Scrapbooking event I went to in Sydney. It was those booths promoting photography and I was just so happy with his shot. He is just the cutest.. mind you his haircut was from Oct. good thing he it still looked good. I revived my MM page pebbles to have it appear embossed.. not bad for a little old embellishment! I got this ribbon strip idea from MM master Iris Uy, ty dear !

Title: So HAPPY together

Materials:
Bazzill Cardstock
Pattern Paper: Rouge De Garance Rosa De Sables, 7 gypsies pattern paper
Embellishments: Doodlebugs buttons, Kindly Glitz, American Craft, Cuttle bug letter die cuts, Fancy pants rubons.

Here is another simple layout you can complete in an hour. The page only has a few steps to complete. An easy layout the looks good but no pressure to do.

My sis Jovy loves this pic of her with hubby JOHN.. so I had to put it on a layout for her!

Scrap with Class Kits

2008-04-22T21:36:00.000+08:00

My work at Scrap with V ask us designers to do a layout for the kit sent to u. We have to do a step by step instruction with pictures to guide each scrapper what to do if they purchase our kits online.

You can find my work and other kits available in the site at this link: http://shopping.scrapwithv.com.au/index.php?cPath=590_963_1545

1st Layout Title: Mc Moody
This Jerome as a young baby and as sweet but so moody little 4 year old. He is but the sweetest thing, always helpful, very cooperative and is the best with taking instruction always.

2nd Layout Title: Moments
This photo is my mom and I on my wedding day.. It was such a moment to hug mom before we we left and joined my husband Patrick in holy matrimony. She has been such an influence in my life and I knew she was holding the tears back so as not ruin our little moment...

Materials used:
2 Bazzill cardstock (green and black)r
1 x Taupe Pearleascent (diamond pattern)
1 x CI Marah Johnson patterned paper
1 x Scrapbooking King rubon (Moments)
1x Debbie Mumm Alpha Stickers
1 x large flower pink
Ribbon
2 pcs wooden swirls
Red felt brads
1 red left strip

Scrapping Spring e-book at Scrapscene.com

2008-04-22T20:16:00.000+08:00

Mojo failing? Need inspiration?

Trying to find what happend to the paper crafter in you?

Check out Scrapscene.com 's Scrapping Spring E-book!

As described from their website, "Scrapping Spring” is a scrapbooking and paper crafting project e-book from ScrapScene! It contains step-by-step project instructions with detailed photos and patterns to create 10 scrap-related projects. Projects are spring-themed to get you in the mood for the better weather just around the corner. There are also a few Easter related projects thrown in for good measure.

These are projects you can make using your scrap supplies and sometimes a few other interesting and unexpected materials. If you are missing one of the supplies, sometimes you will find that ideas are given for alternatives. You can make these projects yourself in your own home, or get together with a few friends and try some of the projects in a crop! Take a look at the projects listed below. A lot of them would be great to give as a gift for someone special! It’s always nice to have a handmade gift on hand in case an opportunity arises to give someone a nice present."

I was lucky to be given a sneak peak by Angie of Scrapscene.com and I was truly reminded of the paper crafter that I should be. Scrapbooking is such a major industry with so many products to choose from. However this e-book has really unearthed ideas in me that are not fad driven. I was attracted to various projects but the ones that caught my eye were those 3 dimensional paper flowers and those hand cut birds. It sure is a great accent to my pages surely. The projects are worth creating and giving us birthday and Xmas gifts to loved ones. Everyone loves hand made gifts !

A more details description is found at this link: http://www.scrapscene.com/2008/03/scrapping-spring-project-e-book.html

How to get your copy of Scrapping Spring:
Scrapping Spring is available for $14.99 and comes in a downloadable pdf file (Adobe Acrobat). If you do not have this program, you can download it here for free. If you are not completely satisfied with this e-book, we will offer a full money back guarantee up to 8 weeks from purchase. Please contact us at scrapscene@gmail.com if you have any questions.

Thanks Angie for this! And super thanks for supporting the scrapbooking community in the Philippines and our group Scrappin Moms!

Another one for the sketches

2008-04-19T06:05:00.000+08:00

Sincere apologoies to deb for not including this in the list of takes on my sketch... Here it is (ty for the nudge Deb dunno why I didnt see this in my inbox)

Deb Ramirez (http://scrapbookingmommy.wordpress.com/
Title : I want this pet
Program used : CK Scrapbook Designer De Luxe
Techniques: Torn edges, shadows, cropping (9 times, for the nine squares,
Journaling : Derick’s dinosaur adventure with Papa at Sitio Lucia

This is a digital page that Deb sent me and she only used one photo to fit the tiatoe mould and another one to focus on her son. I think of all the layouts this one really is resembling my sketch. I am amazed that this can be done digitally because frankly never tried that in my life,... great going Deb! Ty for joining... Send me you addy soon ok !

Many thanks to those who took time to do their take on my RAK challenge

2008-04-14T06:29:00.016+08:00

It is with great pleasure I share with you the ladies who did their take on my sketch challenge. Again i was floored with ideas, talent and just sheer ingenuity in attacking such a simple sketch,..
My take was a copy cat of the original sketch but I kinda flipped it a little. I used photos of my family on New Years Day at Westgrove. I tried my darndest to take good pics but bottom line it was fun time with the kids -- those memories are sure priceless hey?

Anyway going back,....I never doubted the girls would take my sketch to the next level... Hahah gave this Amateur sketcher some good points for trying bwhahhahahahha !

Allow me to share them with you, plus my little comments, all good though!.... and by the end of this post, kindly take me up on the challenge ok ladies?

Issa Lucido (http://scrapaholicissa.blogspot.com/)
Materials Used:7 gypsies family report pps, cardstocks (black, beige, olive green), lace, Fancy Pants felt shapes-harvest, Prima mini flowers, MM flowers- Sophia blossoms and bottons, MM antique brads, MM staple wires, Creative Imaginaton Anthology cardstock journal stickers, Ranger glossy accents, Colorbox chalk ink and black pen
Title: Together

Title: Let's Celebrate
Materials Used: Fancy Pants- sweet pea (noa), Kewl (sublime),Chichi (forgot the name of the pps), cardstocks, DCWV happy birthday pps, Fancy Pants MOD bottons, MM brads, Autum leaves rub ons (happy birthday), vellum black pen, Ranger glossy accents, MM metal index tab, DMC thread and fibers

Together and Let's celebrate layouts are 2 different layouts that Issa made for this sketch. What is ideal with these pictures are they are just every day pictures she has used. Love for family is the theme Issa evokes on these 2 layouts. I have to be partial to the first layout though, because I am lover of film strips and this really look so good. It reminded me of a magazine layout I once saw in a local woman mags. The lace flowers and lace she used accentuated the page without drowning the photographs. Let celebrate o the other other hand higlighted her cute little boy, the star of this own birthday party... Great JOB Issa, you really are a fab scrapper!

Michelle Sonza (http://scrapisticatedmichelle.blogspot.com/)
Title: Athena

Mich made this page as a gift to her co workers' daughter. I love that she tied in all the colors fo the photographs with all the elements she use on her page, her title, swirls, flower and papers.

The swift scrapper that she is, I love that she has no pressure in using new and old stash to utilize her hoarded materials. She is never afraid to just scrap and has no pressure issue when embellishing. Its a great page Michelle, good job girl ! I am sure who ever you gave this to was so happy with the fab page you made.

Khei De Dios (http://scrappykhei.blogspot.com/)
Title: Cherish the Moment
Love the multiple shots of the subject Khei had used on her digital layout. As a mamarazzi I love to take pictures like this and creating layouts to show some sorto sequence. The colors used for background are so sweet, just like this chubby little girl here Ellianna Cereese.

Dinah Maningat ( http://dmaningat.blogspot.com/

The moment I saw Dinah's layout, it already caught my eye bec of the blue hues she used on her layout. As a mother of 3 boys, blue has been a color I have learned to love. Whats really good about this layout again, is the sequence of shots Dinah shot of Jao as he tried to crawl on the bed to reach the target. I loved the mix of ribbon and doodling for the border of the tic tac toe square shape. Applause to Dinah for incorporating flowers on a page without it looking girly (flowers on boy pages is ok !). I say it again Dinah, you do fab layouts girl!

Helga Vergara (http://helgapayawal-vergara.blogspot.com/)
Title: Rubber Ducky

Helga's little Ike is sucha cutie and you see him here in action.. Love the colors on this fun layout and I loved how you group together to frame rubber ducky with buttons.

The embossed title adds pizzazz to your page. More little IKE's layouts !

Zabeth Gochuico (http://elizabethtangochuico.blogspot.com/)
Title: Manila ZOO

Love the colors Zabeth used on her Manila ZOO digital layout. Earth tones are certaily the way to go when documenting photographs such as this. Its great she even capture the animal description and included them on this layout.

Timi Mercado (http://scrapaholictimi.blogspot.com/)
Title : Reggae
This layout of Timi's exceptionally captured reggae colors, as modelled by her daughter in a reggae beanie. This is such a fun layout and all embellishment all tied in together for the title/theme, title, sewing, colors, string and buttons. Great job Timi!

Raissa Villanueva
Title: Summer'06
Raissa mentioned to me that she almost didnt send this layout because it was no match for my sample. I beg to differ because however simple this layout is-- the COLORs spell SUMMER to the max. THis layout is fun, fresh and fab in my books. I love the doodling and the 3d element on the page Again you don't need a dollar cruncher to achieve a fab layout!

Susie Tan (http://luckyme168.blogspot.com/)
Title: From Crawling to Walking

Here is a simple layout by Susie of her son's milestones. Its great to see how he did progress from the crawling to walking. Susie shares with me that she has no access to scrapbook material in HK however, she did her best completing her layout with what she had on hand. Good Job dear!

Jona Panesa (http://artworksbyjona.blogspot.com/)

Title: What's on your mind
Jona suprised me by using only one photo of her son and cut them in to 6 squares. Kudos to her for trying this photo technique and it really compliment her her layout so well. Simple layout with minimal embellishments but with lots of impact. Its a great layout Jona!

Alby Laran (http://scrap-my-life.blogspot.com/)

Title: Zero
Materials: 1 cardstock (Bazzil), 1 sheet of rub-ons (Luxe Designs), 1 set of Vinyl Thickers (American Crafts), 1 Coke Cap (EK Success), 2 pens (Sakura Souffle and Staedler Triplus), zero sugar!

I love layout for its simplicity,..Alby only used 2 colors black and white and those tansans/bottle caps of COKE looks so great for embellishment. I think this layout looks very stylish, a minimalist and a great example that you dont need to have 10 dollars to achieve one perfect layout!

Anna Zalamea

Title: Sweetness

I was touched Anna (know she is busy over in CA) took the challenge to do here version of my sketch. She even told me that it might be disqualified because it didnt follow the sketch to the T. However I assured her -- any version is permissible and I loved how she did her lift. It kept the tic toe shape on the page but with journalling, title and embellishment in the center. I think its very shabby chic and i reallylike this layout.

So ladies this is friendly challenge I have for all of you,... why don't you challenge 3 to 5 girls of your choice and see how they do their v.)ersions of your layouts. YOu can make your little challenges/RAKs but I reckon it doesnt matter if there is a lure of prize(that's totally up to you).. Imagine if 12 of you invite 5 people each thats 60 layouts already from when we began.

I will announce tommorow my TOP 3 choices but I want to let you know I will be sending RAKS to all 12 of you so kindly pop me an email with your address please ty.... send it to my yahoo at patnjo2k@yahoo.com.

Big hugs to you guys for trying my sketch.... so happy you took time out of your busy scheds,..

Great job ladies!

I posted the links on their blogs, why dont you post some love in their message box (if havent arleady been visiting their blogs already)..........

ty again till next RAK challenge !

Scrapfest invitation

2008-04-10T15:45:00.000+08:00

It's a little over a month away before our mega event Scrapfest 5 and I would like to invite you all to attend.

I have to say its one event I am so sorry to miss because not only is the line up of activities HOT but the line up of sponsors both international and LOCAL (oh i cant believe what they are giving us!) is just enuff to make me GREEN with envy,...

I keep saying this over and over again -- find those interested parties, those artists waiting to be tapped to scrapbook -- find those newbies that will help our community grow,... As you can see, with the US manufucturers such as Basic Grey, Prima Marketing, Making Memories (to name a few) finally looking our way, its really strength in numbers ladies,...

So like for Scrapbooks exchange who some years ago began only with 8 individuals -- its your little piece of the pie to invite more scrapbookers -- more people to this worthwhile hobby. It is your best gift to our suppliers to help build a stronger community.

To date ladies we only have 40 slots available (this was as of a few days ago --- the tickets keep dwindling down) for Scrapfest, so kindly make your deposits to lock in your spot for this great event,..

who knows you might just come home after Scrapfest 5 with more loot than what you bought .....................

--- hint hint -- a no.1 top product in every scrapbooker's wishlist,...

hmmmm whatever that is ---- watch out for it,...

Kindly visit our blog for current updates of the event.

And remember should you be inviting newbies, its ideal you inform to visit the site for Scrapfest 5 developments..
http://www.scrappinmoms.blogspot.com/

Ladies here are the Scrapfest promos (pls take advantage of it ladies !)

Scrapfest 5 Promos!

By popular demand, here are more details on Scrapfest 5!
Join us once again for a day of scrapping, shopping and sharing, together with other scrapbooking enthusiasts and suppliers.
Date: May 17, 2008
Time: 9:30am-6:00pm
Place: Max's Restaurant, Scout Tuazon Branch, QC

SCRAP
Show off your creativity during our Scrapfest 5 Challenge.

SHOP
Shop for the newest scrapbooking materials during the event. Top scrapbooking suppliers will bring in the hottest items from the USA and Asia, and have special offers only for this day.

SHARE
Scrappin' Moms with the help of their friends will be sharing various scrapbooking techniques during the demonstrations.Hurry and reserve your tickets now!

Only 120 slots available.We’re sure you’re going to have a SUPER FUN time in this event!

For a ticket fee of P700.00, each participant (same price for adults & children) is entitled to the following:

A mini album kit to complete during the hands-on workshop
A Scrapfest challenge kit.
A lunch and snack coupon
A raffle coupon

Use of various materials for stamping and embossing, as well as use of die-cutting machines.
Access to special discounts offered by the scrapbooking suppliers
A slot to various demonstrations during the day.
Note: As space is limited, ONLY TICKET HOLDERS will be allowed to enter the event.

To kick off this exciting event, we have put together 3 different promotions to entice you to join us for a great day of learning, fun filled activities and interaction with the most passionate scrapbookers in town.

PROMOTION #1
Very early bird special – Pay only P 650.00 (Ps50.00 off) by APRIL 4, 2008
Pay your discounted Scrapfest fee of Ps650 by April 4, 2008 and get a free Prima Bitty Bag (Ps250 value)! (promotion finished)

PROMOTION # 2
Early bird special P 650.00 (P 50.00 off) - PAY YOUR FEE BY APRIL 18, 2008
Pay your discounted Scrapfest fee of Ps650.00 by April 18, 2008 and get an exclusive Scrapfest 5 badge.

PROMOTION #3
Bring a friend, Win a prize - PAY BY APRIL 30, 2008

We encourage you all to try and find a new scrapper untapped by any of the e-groups in town. You can help contribute to building a stronger scrapbooking industry here by finding those individuals who are eager to learn but don’t know where to start.

You will be the mentor-partner of this newbie during the Scrapfest. Teach them the ropes and help them purchase new products and guide them throughout the day’s activities.

1. Invite a newbie/neophyte scrapper who is not a member of any scrapbooking e-group (MyScrapWorks, Pinoyscrapbookers or Scrapbooks-exchange ).

2. Pay fees of both Scrapper and newbie on or before April 30, 2008. Both of you will be entitled to win $15.00 worth of scrapbook items each (total $30.00 value).The more people you invite, the more chances for mentors to win in the ‘bring a friend’ promo!

RESERVATION PROCEDURE:
1. Prepare the required amount for a ticket to Scrapfest 5:
Upto April 18, 2008 - Ps650.00
April 19-May 16, 2008 - Ps700.00

2. Deposit your payment to the appropriate account:
For Metro Manila Deposits:
Bank: Metrobank
Branch: Pasong Tamo Javier
Account Name: April Joy Lim
Account #: 173-317335367- 8

For Provincial Deposits:
Bank: BPI
Branch: Bel-Air Paseo
Account Name: Ma. Margarita Mojica
Account#:1865-0100-75

3. Fill up the required information in the Payment Confirmation page.

4. Present your deposit slip at the registration table on May 17. Don't lose your deposit slip!
No more ticket discounts will be given for payments made after April 18, 2008.
Tickets are transferable, but not refundable. Keep checking our blog for more updates. For inquiries, email scrappinmoms@gmail.com.

on a roll YEAH!

2008-03-28T13:10:00.001+08:00

You can't begin to imagine my extreme happiness of just being able to create no holds barred. For everything that I have experienced for the past months(extreme domesticity) - its just a sigh of relief I am able to make the kind of layouts that I like.. To be able to scrap, to have the time to do what I love most, preserving my family's memories,.. yeah ppl may think its so motherly, its a lame hobby -- heck -- i really dont give damn -- i love this hobby and its been this way for 6 years now!

Some of my lo's are a hit and miss but some I really love - hang on ! I love them all -- old style, multi photo, 1 page lo's, color blocking, hip layots, bright or muted-- as long as there is some fine cutting I can sink my teeth into --- I am totally over the moon. Some of my friends asked what i get from fine cutting my own 3d embellishments. Well lets just say if one is addicted to coffee and it gives them a rush or a a high then -- then thats where I get my own fix. Au, my friend, once asked me do I really make gigil the paper that if I dont slice it as thin -- would i be satisfied?.. Yes and no -- some lo's dont need fine precision cutting but some just scream at me. And its the way I choose papers. Crazy but true !

Should scrapbooking never invented anything else but paper to work with -- then I can still do a page with different 3d elements on it - the magic of scissors, craft knife and craft matt. I just realised I am a paper lover, bec I cant throw anything ,I need to utilize at least 80% of a page for either one or 2 layouts -- sayang eh !

Here are more layouts to share :

Title: Best of friends
Materials: American Crafts/DCWV pps, burlap, 6 diff ribbons, Fancy pants chibpoard, DCWV frills, assorted buttons, Kaisercraft felt/bling, K & co rubons, Bazzill cs

I have been wanting to scrap this photo for the longest time. It is indeed a special photo bec it was the first TV interview by ANC. It was a highlight for the Scrappin MOMS because it was the beggining of many developments for our group. Our success to have scrapbooking more mainstream began after this interview and we have never looked back. It is a great shot of Mia, April and I. Dont we all look very pretty and very happy. Note: we felt like celebs bec like any guests, we had our own dressing room had our hair and make up done too,... A few minutes of fame,... hehheheheh

Title: My simple wishes
Materials: MME pp, DCWV cs, blings, metal flowers, k &co stickers, alpha stickers, DCWV felt letters and butterflies.

I have been going crazy over Jerome's pics -- he is such a cutey and loves to be photographed. I have collected MME and this other brand that faces me with orange texts for a while awhile now and how timely bec the colors just swak to a T!

More new layouts

2008-03-26T19:40:00.003+08:00

Title: Meant for me

Materials used: BG pprs/ letters, MM page pebble, foam for 3d lements, ink for light distressing, MM brads

This layout is 2007 but never had a chance to post. This is Jacob at 6 months old in his first pictorial. Suc a cutie hey!

Title: Make Memories

Materials used: Scenic route PPS, brads, Urban Lily rubons and stickers made as 3d elements, chipboard from boys toys. DCWV cardstock for base

this layout was a breeze and it kept building and building until filled it up -- I followed my sketch and this is what I came up with. Taken Jan 1, 2007 -- the mamarazzi in me wanted good shots of the boys but they are boys,... The wind blew hard, very muggy that day too --the yayas tried hard to get the kids to do well but failed. In the end, I was still happy with the photos because my kid were in the natural element -- different shots and poses,... still a very happy group we are!

Title: Santa meeting
Materials used: BG pps, metail letters, Bazzill brads, MM metal corners, Maya road chipboard, brilliance ink, Copper ink and blings

This was the first time the kid posed with Santa. I was a little ticked that his sled couldnt be seen here hhahahahah and the colors were just not so Xmasy,... THe kids werent such in the mood because we waited in queue for our turn -- never mind. I know what to do nxt time. This is what I wanted to as a new tradition in our family --- to get our family pics with Santa every Dec. This marked our first Xmas in OZ.

Title: Enjoy the process

Materials: BG scraps and BG background ppr, Scenic Route chipboard, American Craft/Provorcraft letters, Cosmo Cricket chipboard, Dimaond glaze, Heidi Swapp flowers.

This is 2007 layout never been posted in my blog. THis is Jacob in his serious mood at home.

Title: I love toy trains

Materials: BG Baby Boy pps, MM brads, bling, American Craft letters. The train strips where cut by craft knife, Train brads (uknown).

I have been wanting to do this layout for Jerome for the longest time. He loves trains and sings the I Love toy trains jingle or the Thomas train song each time.

I have more layouts to post but willl do that very soon after my Scrap with V Design group has posted our class kits in the site.

I passed my driving test

2008-03-18T19:52:00.001+08:00

finally, after all the anxiety in preparing for the exam, am officially a driver,...

I realised that I failed after stuffing up my reverse park, I even missed one instruction because I felt like I was dazed by my own error,...

then when i had waited near the driving test window after the drive out,.. she asked me about my maiden name in my license and then she said under her breath 'oh you passed by the way',... silly me said "are you sure?".. but i did,.. startin tomm I drive the yap boys to school.

thank goodness...

My favorite layout

2008-03-18T06:04:00.000+08:00

I love this photo of Jorel taken by Jeff Lopez. He has an amazing talent to bring out the best in my boys (and some of you know how hard it is to get decent shots of my hyper boys).. I have done a layout using this photo but I had to do a solo one for Jorel,.... just the cutest, I couldnt resist! This was a super simple one, fast and easy but was so much fun to do. I like lo's like this, very neat, dont you think ?

Title: Enjoy life
Materials used: Imagination project pps, DCWV cs, clear/colored buttons, K& co caption (hidden journalling), Scenic route background ppr, American craft foam and vinyl letters, Doodle bug small buttons/trims (my new fave for quick frames on pics!), craft knife for making those cute little pin wheel (had a crack at cutting them so tight it looked like thread, the best !)

So ppl on our next pictorial/party book Jeff Lopez, you wont be sorry! I wish I can fly him to Sydney for my sis baptism -- lotto where art thou lotto!

its about time

2008-03-16T19:08:00.000+08:00

Its about frigging time I break out from my yonks ago hiatus,... been creating and enjoying making layouts with no stress, no need to use new stuff and appreciative of rediscovering older stash than can still be today's look.

I even unearthed some of my so called 'old school scrapbooking' of cutting and piecing things together,.. loving foam too i tell you so American Crafts -- am giving you run for your money.

I really had so many revelations doing layouts the past month. I am happy where my creativity has taken me. And as for stamping, am a newbie surely and my stamps are so virgin its not funny! However, I learned to bring back the innovation back into scrapbooking, using whatever skills I have and not think of what I left in Manila. I should really make use of whats here, give it todays twist and who knows it might just be my best scrap pages yet. Anyway, best or not, my family truly loves what I do and they are my biggest supporters. And the nice comments they give me the best highs I tell you!

And yeah the backward mamarazi that I am finally getting a new camera courtesy of my generous bunso brother, Josef (who recently had a new baby with his wife, Sarah, they named her Miya Jaye). My Olympus will be parking with they YAPS by April....

So without further adieu, feast your eyes in my cutting masterpieces. (note I recently fell in love with FOAM, whether for accenting or even for captions and titles. I hope you like them)..

Title: Domestic Goddess

Materials used: BG pp & cs (Stella Ruby), Provocraft stickers, BLings, stickles, Cosmo Cricket Chipboard, Metal bookplate, Craft foam, Sizzix dies (Round a bout), Fiskars border punch, MMpaints,Diamond glaze, Fancy PantsRubons, DCWVbutterfly felt stickers

This photo was takent by Jeff Lopez and my background was a door in hall. Pity it wasnt edited by the expert himself -- i tried at making it B/w and it turned out so washed out. I thought why not do my own tweaking with it and create my own background, I cut to kingdom come from BG papers and added Fancy pants rubons and played with using Kindy glitz. Title: Boy oh Boy

Materials: Cherry Arte/ Ki Memories pps, Scenic Route Background apper, Doodlebug rubons, Artistic Expressions Tranparency tags, Assorted buttons. Foam used to lift stars and mount the 'look at me transparency.

Jerome my boy just loves to take challenges,never afraid to try anything -- built tough!

Title: Celebrating Life with you (a Christmas day photo with my hubby Patrick)

Materials use: Junkitz salsa celebrations papers, Deja Views Orange, green and light red pps, bubble wrap (stamped w/ MM paint) tag for title YOU, blings, foam for title (coated with diamond glaze), Tech. tuesday corner stamp, Kindy glitz.

I paper rolled the pink and green papers to disguise bad background and just loved the results (one of the Scrappin Moms share this technique with us). A hidden tag to reveal journalling and flower highlighted with MM page pebbles (remember those?). I kinda went crazy with this paper, such color and happiness it evoked. With our photo being landscape, I cut our photo to elevate us a little and put foam at the back, to make us look a little 3d and not disapper in the page. Patrick loved this layout (so thats a great big pat in the back hahahhhahah!). The circle patterns were cut and I just pieced them together to frame the photo.

Title: Say Cheese

Materials: Scenic Route Samplers/pp, Bazzil Cs, American Craft sticker letters, caption Stickers, Kindy glitz, craft foam, Craft express gel stickers, Titles are Cuttlebug font mounted w/ pp and painted with diamond glaze.

I enjoyed being able to create my very own 3d diecuts and give it an embossed look using Diamond glaze. I love these photos of Jerome because the captions I have placed here is what he says each time we take photos. He loves being photographed!
Title:Lil' Princess

Materials used: Provocraft pps, craft foam for title and crown, K & co caption rubons, Kindly glitz

I enjoyed making this layout for sis Jovy, hubby John and their daughter Joanna. The crown was pattern from a chipboard but I sculpted and bling'd it myself coated with diamond glaze.

Title: 10 reasons why you love me

Materials used: BG Scraps and left overs, DIVI ribbons, American craft rubonsr/letters, 7 gypsies top ten lists, bling, DCWC stickers, bling, letter stickers.

THis was taken by Jeff Lopez, and like it was after my son's party, were tired and still we posed for our shots. Pat was suprisingly into it - even posing like silly!

I am sleepy will post more tommorow and the next few days,... been a busy little bee.

DT work next, more fun fun fun and no creative block no more, mojo's back and creating just the way I like it !

My first sketch

2008-03-10T05:47:00.003+08:00

You can tweak the simple sketch to your liking.
You can also turn the sketch around. You can add matting, torn edges on the tic toe square.. options are simply endless.
As edges are bare, you can place borders- sew on it, cut it, punch it.
The divisions on the tic tac toe shape can be replaced by ribbon.
All squares don’t need to be pictures – it can be also be embellishments . The no. of pictures is not at all limted. As long as there are pictures!
The circle on bottom left corner can be embellished with flowers, diecut or chipboard w/ caption around circle . These are just mere suggestions, of course.

The inspiration came from reading about using negatives of chipboard. The tic toe square shape came from my kids puzzle pieces. I kept the chipboard excess and WALLA! fantastic!

I will upload my sample very soon...
My challenge is for you to give it a go.

In recent dev'ts this weekend, I wanted to channel the 'negative vibes' and turn it to something good and positive. It is my special way to show ppl that PINOYs are a generous group. We are the kind who would give an 'arm and a leg' to help friend out. We are a peace loving and caring bunch and its the love of this hobby that truly has united us.

I am willing to send some RAKS who can spring out a take on my very simple sketch. I am willing to send these anywhere in the world. Just give me some love and make a layout about anything your heart desires, no special theme,-- just you creative freedom in one layout.

You can send the layouts to me at this email patnjo2k@yahoo.com. Be sure its in my mailbox by the 1st April and will announce RAK winnners soon after.

Thanks ladies. You can also ask some friends of yours from different groups, countries to join this challenge.

Leave me a note in my chatterbox should you want to take me up on this RAK offer.

cheers,.. hope you all have a great day!

Cyber Crop at Scrap with V

2008-03-07T15:24:00.000+08:00

Cyber Crop at Scrap with V
Scrap with V is having cyber crop all weekend,so head on over to the site to check out at this link: http://www.scrapwithv.com.auThere are great challenges and games,.. prizes up for grabs too,...its my first time to even sketch a layout -- simple one but i hope the ladies can whip up magic on it...

just want to share some family pics

2008-03-04T10:48:00.002+08:00

I want to share some family pics,... some from xmas,..hahah its already MARCH, hey where did the time the go !We had a blast because Santa came to visit us to bring gifts and money envelopes.The children where simply flabergasted to see the big man in the red suit and had their jaws dropping as he came in the room.....the joy and laughter from the children where just the best.. definitely music to Santa's ears.... then again, my smarty pants Jeromee boy said to Santa "time to get changed now lolo...." So I guess he didnt really believe it was Santa after all..

Grace under pressure

2008-02-27T18:35:00.000+08:00

What happens when you have 3 kids and you need to go to grocery...

they chuck a tantrum? wrong!
one poos and you need to clean them up. WRONG!!!!!!!!!
they start fighting and starts to cry!!!! wrong....

oh all that happend on other days but not today,..it is something NEW,....

we all go out blissfully and Jerome and Jorel in great fighting spirits because they had long afternoon naps... so the door shuts behind me and i did verify with Patrick if he has our house keys --- he loudly tells me yes!

I then follow down the stairs with my 2 year old hung on on my left hip....
Patrick forgets something and dashes back to the flat with our keys, comes back down seconds later to tell me the house key wont open our door,..

Heart starts to thump -- man are we gonna get locked out?!!!-- Only had one diaper, wipes and 3 bottles of milk for the boys in my bag,....

I then try it myself and realise, darn the knob wont open with the key - it clicks and turns but it won't open.. verdict the kids must have played with the door and they must have turned the button too far for locking and had done so we cant open the door without a key. The door opens with one key in my batch, the knob and the deadlock,..

So i come down to tell Pat....I was ticked alright! His darn solution is to be Tarzan and climb up the window and destroy the screen to go in,.. I was thinking more locksmith or find a person who can pick our lock... grace under pressure alright,.... we were near arguing but you know after 8 years we never ever get to boiling point now -- we get inis but not so much we ruin our day,..

Patrick the smart one remembered a key duplicate place in Blacktown - and $6 later we had duplicates... Walla! We go home and open our door,... we then ended going to grocery and to cap off our evening -- a massive storm hit as we took the kids in to the car! Talk about timing !

The kids loved the fast swift movement and pouring of rain on our windshield,.. and so thats all in days work in the YAP household !

Scrap with V

2008-02-25T15:38:00.003+08:00

So glad to have stumbled into Scrap with V site and so priveleged to be a member of their design team.

The girls here are fab and so talented,.. some of the girls are getting published in Australian Scrapbook Magazines as we speak!

So visit this site soon and Vanessa (the sweet owner of the site) has ordered up a storm from the CHA 08 new releases,... so we are all raring to see that come into the site soon,....

I am excited to start designing and sharing ideas with all my fellow DTs.
Here is the link to the site: http://shopping.scrapwithv.com.au/

Little boy extreme!

2008-02-11T08:30:00.000+08:00

Jerome Matthew turned 4 on the 4rth February,... He has improved heaps in the tantrum dept but we do have our days when CONTROL isnt a word I can enforce. Last Sunday we didnt make it to church bec of his little episode. Its something about doing anything he doenst want to and him reacting extreme about it. So we proceeded to the mall bec we were late for the mass service and as we left an hour later -- I had to carry him from the mall to the parking lot. Patrick cannot deal with this physically with his bad back of course -- so super mom had to cart him. He kicked and cried the whole process only for him to nap as soon as we got home...

He then woke up happily -- na parang nothing happened ha! And we decided to fulfill the promise we gave the kids to ride on the train. 'Simple pleasures' and the boys were so behaved when we got on Blacktown and arrrived in Parramatta. We let them play in a free playground in the mall and I hurriedly tried to catch Lincraft (darn it was closed already!). I then got Patricks cheapo pasta (from the pasta shop --- regularly 6.50 BUT was only $4 because they were closing)... I came back with Jorel and Jerome was still in the best of moods haaaay extremes I tell you ! We got back home again and he wanted to ask me if I had fun but really he wanted me to ask him that question......

I pray the LORD will let him mature especially in school. I was told the by his Teacher Mrs Wyzbee that he is so well behaved in school,..you can imagine how much I sigh with relief hearing that,...

Here's pic of him a little scrawny but so heavy... he eats the most compared to the 2 boys but doenst put on anyway weight - must be him being so active and energetic all the time....

Unsuccesful driving test

2008-02-06T12:29:00.000+08:00

I failed my practical driving test in the last 3 minutes of the exam -- why? A sign that says 'road works at 40km -- man where is the road work oh my gosh!,.... its funny the instructor said sorry that I failed but she had no choice because its her job to follow the guidelines of the test.

I dont feel bad about the fail -- I know I did great and the instructor told me so -- but an overspeeding is an auto fail on the test,....

I feel bad because Patrick will have to readjust his sched to pick up the boys at 2:45 to be at school at 2:55 pm. Thank GOD he just works across our flat and the school is like 3 minutes drive only. I pack his lunch now for work so he can duck out at that time of the boy's dismissal time.

I have given Patrick a responsiblity that should be mine to take and this FAIL means 6 weeks no solo driving on my learners permit. DRATS! Its a setback alright but they say to fail is to teach one a lesson. My lesson is --- to not breathe normally till the testing officer says I passed. bwahahahahaah!

I wil try to rebook my driving test on the 17th March to an earlier date so I will call the RTA office weekly to check for cancellations. It is my hope that it will better news hey, next time round.

finally scrapping... here's my god daughter Raphaella's bday layout at one!

2008-02-04T10:31:00.000+08:00

Isnt she lovely... such a sweet girl --- my goddaughter is making me clucky for a little girl now!

My god daugher Raphaella Ysabel turned one and I had made my first layout in months for her. Her mom Aileen loved it so I am thinking --- its must be good hey? I am so challenged by girly layouts I tell you.

I realised though - even if scrap styles are changing I am gonna stick to the same way I scrap --why because it makes me happy and I am not stressed by it all,.. this layout only took 40 minutes to finish.

Here are old friends who I have met some 15 years or so ago.. most of us are moms now,....

Here is Aileen and my best friend Catherine.The girls there are Aileen's daughtersAJ and Raffy and Catherine's Caitlin who is my god daughter too...

The DG (domestic goddess) survives first day of school

2008-02-02T06:20:00.000+08:00

I was so lucky Patrick accompanied me to school with the 3 boys in tow,... Jacob on first day resisted and so the Principal helped me and she carried the boy in to the kinder room. Next stop was pre-school where Jerome couldnt wait to go into the classroom as I signed him in and got his name tag on him and we found his cubby hole to put his bag in. I gave them breaky of fried rice and thank goodness they ate. I have to replace the lunch meal cause I knew that they will not eat in school (true enough they only ate the biscuits I packed). There is a peanut allergy scare there in school so they are not allowed to bring peanut butter and even nutella which are my kids fave,... sad,... Jacob, I was told, cried at recess and at lunch time loooking for me,.... however Jerome was way fine,.. he didnt even show signs of separation anxiety, he was happy in his new environment.

The second day was harder though because I was alone this time round. I had to make the 2 older boys stand on the sidewalk while I hung their back packs (no yaya to carry it for them) and I took the Jorel off the car seat. I opted not to stroller and not to park at the back of the school but the pedestrian crossing stressed me so much. The passing cars where conscious of school zone but I really was frantic to get the kids crossed and with them walking hands clasped together. And we made it. I had this funny feeling people were looking at me as I carted off the 3 boys from pedestrian crossing into the school grounds. Something about '3 boys against one mother' they they must have found amusing. I will use the parking at the back by next week because it so close to the school property and even if they run off-- am confident no car will be around to give me a fright.....Jacob made the assembly line better yesterday but he had this face that said to me, 'mom dont leave me'. He carried along that worried look as he walked up the steps to the classroom however I was comforted he was good that day from teacher's feedback. Picking up wasn't too bad. I just can't park so good..

gosh its my test on Tues to convert my license, I pray i pass then my husband and I will have gone thru all rigors of migration into this country. After the license, we can breathe easy then.

Its a brand new week nest week. Good luck to me! whew!

weekly updates of the domestic goddess..

2008-01-25T05:35:00.000+08:00

Oh man its been catch up week this week -- I had to fold and fix into the wardrobe about 4 baskets of wash,.... not to mention unload our busting hamper of clothes and do 3 loads -- oh my thats waiting for me to fold too,.. darn,.....

Oh well -- I have to take it w/ my kids -- they are resilient and they learned to dress themselves all on their own (without yaya and without me)... In the mornings when we havent really taken a bath yet, they would go their respective drawers to find jocks, shorts and shirts,.. and they proudly come to me and say "MOM, I done it mom, look shirt short, I done it". They are toilet trained as well and really just call me when time comes for a wash, they wash their hands (never mind the messy soaked sink,..) I am trying to train the little one too to do his no.2 in the toilet,.. he hates it bec he lets out frustration everytime I make him sit there but he will soon get used to it....

My packages finally came from Deals Direct for chrome shelves (like my racks in the PHils) and drawers (resembling cropper hopper).. E parcels have to be delivered to my doorstep and darn delivery man didnt bother buzz my flat, he just put a card to say pick it up at the post office. I was so ticked -- I had those delivered because I knew it was bulky now I had to make Patrick do a run on his lunch time just to get them. I made a complaint just to let them know I never left my house and no body bothered to call or buzz me,.... some ppl -- just so darn lazy,..... I also complained at the company I bought the item from so they know I didnt pay for delivery just to pick it up at the post office... I am no whinger --- but you should get what you pay for --- and thats getting your packages at your doorstep...

Patrick helped me set up the shelves and drawers and I can finally say am all set. My dutiful mom arrived from a short Manila trip into Singapore and she was so kind enough to bring some of my wish list of scrapbook items left over there. So anytime my brother comes over -- he will bring some of it and the rest mom will bring over... Funny my shipping of 14 boxes also made the route via sea freight MLA-SING-AUS.....

Heres how the furniture looks like..

I sorted my embellishments into stocker boxes now chipboard, sticker of any kind, rubon and various (acetate, paper diecuts, plastic etc),... I am still tossing whether to get it the CLIP IT UP by Renee, I found it at $42 dollars for the base and $24.50 for the 2nd tier at an online in the US.

In case you are interested, you may find it at this price at this site. http://store.scrapbooking

-warehouse.com/

clipitup.html you can also find the 2 items on sale on EBAY too and so check it out.

Anyway chances are I will just agonized over this and never end up buying it ....

........ Que sera sera ...........

Tales of the new Sydney driver (episode 2)

2008-01-05T04:54:00.000+08:00

Here I am talking more about my driving... I feel writing it, saying it out loud will teach me to be a better at it.. to be more alert and aware that I am the one behind the wheel..

The switch from the BMW to the TOYOTA Avensis was drastic. The BM had a stiffer accelerator and steering and it speeds off slower than the TOYOTA. My car on the other hand has a softer steering and accelerator I termed as feather touch. So you can imagine the near whiplash when I accidentally step on it hard..... Haay naku! I know I will be borrowing Papa's 15 year old car for my Feb 5 test (thank god for that car !) because I dont want to fail and I dont want to pay another 43 bucks --- worse wait for another slot na seems set back another 4 weeks,..... SCHOOL is starting and I need to be the bus driver for the 2 kids haaay!

SO New Years day when I parked behind the BMW at my moms house-- I nearly knocked into its rear...... you can just imagine how my heart raced a 100 kms per hour,... i stepped on the accelerator too hard and good thinking 99 (oh thats me ok !) stepped on the brakes.... and the kids were still in the car at the time.

And if thats not enuff we went Thurs night late night shopping to buy some things..... I hand brake the car and did not put it to park (blame it on my inexperience you know)... Since I driver closer to the wheel --- darn! Patrick swapped with me to do reverse park and he stepped on the accelerator... Imagine my panic I was outside of the car watching him cope with the panic and trying to press brake. The episode was heated because he blamed me for driving too close,... I said to him -- 'man, why did you step on the accelerator then'. He said 'why did you not park it',... And i did tell him if he thought I was too close why did he not adjust it and walk in, the lever was so easy to reach... I guess we were both we were coping with what happened. The panic, the nervousness, just all that. The children were all still strapped in the car then..

My knees shook after,.... Patrick's foot was strained from trying to stop the car. Despite the bad little incident -- we were able to have a family dayout in the mall. Jerome is better now -- still running but less tantrums now... A far cry from the lashing out he did with my 3 yayas back in Manila. Now Patrick had a good run -- just chasing after the boy.....

Thank god we didn't bump into anyone that time.... Thank god we had still a fun family day out that evening.... And thank god Patrick and I were level headed after the incident.

(as you are reading this and you dont know -- I have only been driving since Sept 14)

We have our own car now! FINALLY!

2008-01-02T15:12:00.000+08:00

This is our first Xmas holidays here in Australia - and how special to end the year by getting our ppl mover, a Toyota Avensis. Its a sporty family sedan to fit 7 comfortably. Admittedly - am extra careful using this car since its brand new and slightly wider compared to the BMW we borrowed from my dad for 2 months. I have to get used to it because school starts in 4 weeks for the 2 boys.

When Patrick drove it up my mom's house -- the children shouted 'wow' upon seeing our car. They seemed so happy with our choice....

We rang my inlaws too (our dear sponsors for this acquisition) and they seemed happy we have our own car now and not borrowing anymore.. God bless my inlaws... how wonderfully generous they are,....

Tales of the new Sydney driver

2007-12-29T04:55:00.000+08:00

I have been driving heaps around here because my hubby is yet to take his driver's practical test And with my 3 months allowable driving time with Phil license, I am doing my best to better my skills and be more alert on the road. Sure I get smirks when my parking is not straight or I take longer to park but I told myself -- if it fits the line and I dont knock into anyone when I back up, its fine.

I prepared a few days for my Drivers knowledge test and thank God I passed. I wasnt worried about doing it again -- it was paying the fee each time you fail was the issue,... so I am thankful I swung a PASS on that particular test.

However as I left Patrick in the flat and walked down the kids to the car (yes I strap them all in their car seats and back up and lock the garage.) I was feeling quite great that day,..... till this thing happened.....

I take the same route to my mom's house from Pendle hill to Blacktown --- and suddenly -- I saw a furry dog ran in front of me,... no leash. Its illegal to have a dog run off like that -- but he was really running toward his home,.... I pressed the brakes but heard a loud thump,... my heart raced and the kids started saying -- "mom what happened?" My father's old BMW has front lower bumper -- fender is it called dunno? I think he hit that..... If I had crushed him with the wheel, I think I would have not seen him run of to his owner. I am just glad when I pressed the brakes with quick action, there was no car tailing me to hit my car's behind. I quickly parked to the kerbside and pressed on my hazard lights. I left my kids in the car -- as I spoke to the owner who seem too distraught to talk -- she was hugging her dog like you would a baby. My heart was racing too... I said sorry and did tell her I tried to stop and she made me feel better by saying it wasnt my fault bec he did run in front so swiftly towards my car. I am no dog lover but I asked her if there was anything I could do for them... she said nothing and walked into her house..... So I drove off........ I was in the speed limit too of 50 kph -- even less being a slow driver with my 3 boys in the back seat.

I am glad the experience didnt faze me much as I did my test and drove for my mom to shop for meats and grocery that day ,... thank god...

Here's hoping I get our new car nxt week -- I won't be in any accidents,... Lord pls. take care of me as I drive..... Bless the ppl on the road and grant me the alertness and safety of driving my children everyday....

wishing everyone a good new year everyone........
my kids so love the holidays with so many toys, cousins to play with,...

god bless you all and take care everyone esp with the fireworks !

People's reactions

2007-11-28T14:30:00.000+08:00

I have done a fair few things the past weeks, buy food at the chinese take away, gone to the bank and opened an account, arranged my govt payments etc.. I am pretty amazed how ppl react to the idea of me having 3 boys one after the other. With no yayas around -- i have to cart of the 3 rugrats with Patrick in all those establishments..... Ppl cant seem to resist to ask about my children, their ages and how they are at home... Some chuckle and say "oh having 3 boys it must be fun..." and they have this really weird facial expression. Some say 'good luck' to me (heck am I taking a test or something that I need a good luck?) --- and 'surely you will have a better deal in about 2 to 3 years'. Some just have this funny laugh giving me the impression -- its not possible to live normally with 3 boys.. I even get constant questions if my kids were twins --- worse they say my boys are triplets and you see those ppl whispering... Some say it out loud and a couple of time -- I just said they were triplets.... (and have a little laugh myself). g

However it is possible to live normally -- not perfectly but --- just live simply and man, just dont expect a spot less house alright, not a full structured day but is feasible to get things done (just not all in one day). I dont get to do the same things I used to do like go shopping and arrive home and all the kids have been fed and have had a bath...

My day is like -- I wake up try to give a decent breaky to the kids - have my bread and coffee..... Give them a bath (complete with brush teeth and lotion the body ha) and then we play, watch tv.. I spend my time folding the clothes (3 sets plus Patricks-- madami yon) and fixing our wardrobe.. I am still in the process of organizing the stuff the came with our 13 boxes. I then prepare Patricks lunch and in between mind the children or change diapers.... We muck around too -- I am like a clown at times,...... and they laugh so loud! I guess these are the memories that I will treasure -- the past year admittedly I was way to busy for them. I am after all making up for that time,....

I love hearing when I give them their biscuits and milk the simple words like "Thank you very much MOM",.... nakakatuwa sila,.... they appreciate me,... I am glad the 2 boys will have spots for school na rin. Jerome will go to private daycare at $51 per day so he goes there Tues and Wed. Thurs and Fri he got into Public Pre school and a whopping $ 7 a day only. Jacob goes to the same school for kinder and I only pay $27 per year --oh my ---- how affordable is that. My 2008 will be more routinal with the kids in school and only Jorel with me at home from 9 to 3pm. I start my year to driving the kids and picking them up the Primary school -- just a like a typical mother should...

That wraps up my day--- for those ladies who are the nicest who take the time to read my mutterings -- ty -- you are true friends,... I am still adjusting so I guess the nxt few posts will be about my day.... those who have left messages -- you guys trully warm my heart -- ty for the support

Tthings that I have learned

2007-11-13T16:55:00.000+08:00

I am not perfect, I dont claim to be able to do everything....the first days in Sydney has been easy -- with my mother in law here -- it was good to have a second pair of eyes.

She left today and it was a good day to say the least -- I had expected her departure will drive me up the wall -- but the kids must have known to be good -- to help mommy out...

At lunch when my mil left -- it was tearful good bye -- I had thanked her for everything she has shared with us -- kahit makeup ko, lotion ko -- she really showers us with so much... We both resisted to be too emotional and all she said 'its ok dito naman ako sa January ulit..'

I put the kids to bed at 1pm -- no more dragging or tearful outburst -- they march like soldiers because my everyday bribe is we would hop in the car when Patrick arrived and look at the trains at the train station. I had a plan to do the laundry, to fix my clothes (with the 1.00 for 10 pcs from the BONDS outlet -- the company where Pat works) and to do the dishes,.. True enough my baby 2 and 3 were asleep in about 10 minutes -- Jacob continued to whimper and talk to himself. I did the chores ----- and even managed to shower a good 20 minutes (wash my hair and loofah -- wat a feat !)..... I even decided my dinner menu in the shower.. thats my quiet time from about 2 to 3: 30....

Jacob didnt sleep and he walked out of the bedroom with this funny smile.... oh well - at least he had his milk and rested right?

So about 4ish I bathed the boys ready for their pjs (and our evening drive to mom's house) and then did my vegie stir fry and fried tilapia... I even managed a tomato and soy garnish for the fish... The kids quietly played and watched tv in the whole time I am preparing my dinner..
And thats all in a days work...

(Incidentally -- this may sound silly -- my dry and peeling hands are finally healing --- the gloves are finally doing the trick to bring back my smoother hands.....)

So I am adjusting, the kids are responding more to me. I am trying to be less stressful in terms of carrying out orders on the children,.. hopefully they soon realise am alone and they need to help me by cooperating..

am getting there....

We have arrived in Sydney

2007-10-27T18:23:00.000+08:00

It was a long no. of hours as my boys and I left from my Laguna house to go to Pilar Village and then to the airport,.. I was just so worried about my baggage allowance and my kids coping in the airport and plane that I didnt realise my top was back to front. For ppl who know me -- I try as best to prepare for major events in my life however this was one of those days I was too preoccupied about everything else. Anyways the baggage was A ok ! and we were even 7 kilos underweight -- darn i left my big shot and supply of Mamy Pokos with all that worry -- ok I can live with that,.. better underweight.... than excess right?

So my 3 rugrats -- 2 in strollers and one walking was really raring to go since the whole waiting at the check in drove them crazy,... Imagine this picture -- they were running and floor polishing the whole airport floor! Some very concerned passengers tried to scare my kids to behave but -- haaay i felt like my kids were like monkeys let loose,...

My mom and mil just let them be as long as they were within eyes' view --- the baggages were finally checkin - our seats taken and darn we got there at 4:30 and finished quarter to 7,.... how swift is that -- NOT!

We got so hungry and settled for some wonton soup -- good thing Jerome let me put him the stroller as we made our way to Gate 2 -- we passed the immigration with no hassle and stopped over duty free for some Shea Body butter from Body Shop,.... My mil was just the best because as my mom bought some for my sister's order.....she asked me if I wanted.. God bless her she bought me 2 and darn had I ask for more-- she would have given me... My kids cooperated to get some dinner and had their food same time as us... so after their food recharge again they went on running fit over the seats -- the ppl stared and laughed -- I just sat down and gave up.... My mom said just put up with it.

So our whole trip was not so bad -- we got on our seats and we got 2 window seats and aisle -- I had the baby Jorel who made mash out of my whole body -- felt like i was being massaged by force! He did sleep the whole trip but each time he really wanted to change position -- he would cry and whimper and so you can just imagine I didnt sleep either..Jerome had been sleeping blissfully all stretched out between me and mom. Jacob who demanded the window seat slept soundly nxt to MIL... He was no bother to my dutiful MIL who wanted to bring us to OZ....

The food was usually bad and they took so long to turn of lights that delayed my kids sleeping... I was tired yes but we got to OZ and we got thru immigration then customs with no hassle.

Patrick has the nicest smile to see the boys -- he kept saying how much they have grown in the longest 6 weeks of his life...I got a nice smack too and thank GOD he missed me too! hhaahaah He better!....

So the past days --- after our arrival here hasnt been bad -- I was just psyching myself up that its all going to be better tomm -- my kids havent been in their routine of eating and sleeping but we are getting by.

I have been sneaking of with my Patrick and MIL to buy our living, dining and bedding furniture and our appliances. We also had to buy boosters for the kids so we can squeeze them in my fathers all BMW -- no real budget to buy a van just yet...

We had our washing machine and ref delivered today. I cleaned for 2 hours today -- kitchen, vacuumed the 2 bedrooms. On Wed our furniture -- tomm. I will be continuing to clean the bath room tommorow,... How domesticated can one get !

We did our massive grocery to buy everything a house needs -- cleaning agents, kitchen needs, cooking needs and food for the kids to eat at home.... haaay it will not end till nxt month all this need to do stuff !

So that recaps what I have been doing here.... the kids are ok -- not bad I guess but I just hope they dont continue to bash my nieces or the Figueroas might ban my children offlimits in the family home

Lucky ME

2007-10-21T12:48:00.000+08:00

I have no photographs to show for this party but yet I wanted to capture the exact emotion of how I felt at the despidida my wonderful friends threw for me.... here goes.....

It was a special day -- its one of those days that would really forever be etched in my mind and my heart,.. its a venue filled with people who have touched my life and I have touched too. I knew somewhere down the road -- if you take the time to talk to a person, offer anything -- advise, a story, a simple joke or just even a simple email or ym message -- it makes a difference. For that I am glad that all this people in my party -- I have really shared special moments of my life.

My hobby is a way of life and the friends I have met are a part of me. They have affirmed me in ways unimaginable,.. their sweet words, their beautiful layouts and the fact they gave me their time -- I am so humbled and so happy to have across them along my creative journey....

I am a very sentimental person -- I dont forget little gestures, I dont forget to try and give some thing back,.... and I guess all this people found something special in me.... I am finally starting to realise that HECK -- there must be some thing good in me. I have always felt that I was never perfect, never the one that people relied on or one that people sought for anything. Its a great feeling to be loved, to be wanted and to be appreciated. All my life I always felt I was not good enough. It was yesterday that I finallly felt I measured up,.. that meron pala akong halaga.

Everyone knows I always go beyond the call of duty, hangang kaya ko gagawin ko. I stand proud to say that I have done my part to help all my friends and to be honored like that yesterday -- 'nakakahiya man' but it truly warmed my heart. I promised myself I wouldnt cry much -- if I can hold it I will. I guess I was a little successful but there were moments I couldnt comprehend how these people spoke about me. I was so touched. I was really moved to tears.

I equally stand proud because my mom was by accident there to see and hear my honoring. Of course I would forever talk about my group to my mom and I fell tickled pink she lived to see that -- just so she knows how much I love my group and how proud I am of all of you. Its also nice to show her what she helped me achieve since she is my NO.1 supporter of my scrapbooking.

For now my work ceases -- its time to really do my 'mommy duties' -- get used to it and when I get on my feet again -- I will come back with vengance -- and hopefully get back to the scrapping swing of things again,....

To my Scrappin moms partners -- I will always miss having you close to me,.... I am forever grateful you helped me realise my dreams. I will be forever grateful -- you accepted me and just loved me for who I am,.... I thank you for sharing your talents with me -- you guys all inspire me to do better in my craft. Thanks so much for the love and the support,...

To Tin and Mia, my bosom buddies -- ty for the venue yesterday and everything else,.. will see each other soon.

To our suppliers, Nette, Vivian, Helen, Mitch and Marinela -- ty for taking the time to see me off -- am so touched you were there,... Thank you for the support you give Scrappin moms, I hope you all know, we will do our darndest to help the scrapbooking industry.

To the LB Scrapbaholics -- ty for going the distance to see me off again -- you guys are the best ! Keep learning and keep winning contests ok !

To the Pinoy scrapbookers, Nita, Jane, Lee, Donna (hope i dont forget anyone...)-- ty so much for the laughter, for the friendship and for the support in all Scrappin Moms activities.. Soon I will also join the PS challenges too !

My other friends, GIGI, Mela, Arlyn, Candy, Christine , Alby--thanks again for attending, I hope you guys get more into the hobby! I will surely miss the laughter and the chats we have !

Tito Jeff and Tito Meng, for providing the photography and comedy spiels of the day ! hahah

April too for twisting my husbands hand in writing a special note for me -- thats a milestone alright ! Definitely scrappable

those also who sent their layouts -- oh my,you guys really floored ME with sensational layouts -- ty...so touched to have it in my album -- salamat talaga.... ay naku lagot ang SYDNEY -- will be super bombarding them how great scrapbook artists my friends are !

thank you all too for making me QUEEN For a day!

I love my friends

2007-10-15T13:38:00.000+08:00

The weekend has just passed and we organized what would have been Punta Fuego sleep over with neverending chat and scrap time.. however we ended up at Ria Mojica's house... I understand now that we neednt have a near to perfect setting to have an excellent weekend. The company alone was PERFECT already!

Just the sheer laughter and great company was enuff to really make me realise how lucky I am to have my friends,... we laugh,we cry over the littlest things and we are all in the same wavelength about a lot of things.

I think this is what really hurts me most to leave the PHILs.. all my life I have struggled where I belong, where I feel at home -- I have found my home thru my friends,... its with them I feel like I can just be ME and its with them I feel I can be much more too. They give me confidence to reach higher and it is thru them I have realised my dreams. I am not perfect but with them -- imperfections are irrelevant -- because they whole heartedly accept ME who I am.

With them I feel like I am piece of a puzzle and I fit perfectly into the mould... I feel that I have worth when I am with them.

I will miss them -- my life has been perfect the past 5 years having them around.
I hope they will miss me too -- and i look forward to coming home again -- hanging out, scrapbooking with them and just laughing with them to our hearts content,...

We may not have had pictures to show but in my heart ---- the memories will forever stay --- to keep me going,... to help me even as I move on to OZ...

ty girls -- you guys are the best !

Patrick you are the best!

2007-10-11T18:34:00.000+08:00

Patrick and I have been communicating thru webcam and yahoo messenger since he left for Australia. There were weeks that he was so so there -- but he did get job almost instantly but its not his choice - he wanted it to make sure there was money coming in. He is that kind of person, he wants to ensure the future of the family. He is in fact a worry wart when it comes to finances. He would always say we are poor and we have no money. He is the financial analyst of this household, I just run the household and take care of the kids.

So he got the job at AMP okay! However he is not happy with this job --- its not his field. A job that came from agency came up and its seems tailor fit for his Industrial Engineering experience in Manufacturing. He was so eager to get that, and I could sense an air of interest and enthusiasm from him, unlike the past weeks. I needed to hear that from him as I worried for him - he hasnt been away from us for more than 1 week !

I am just happy my family is keeping him busy and he himself wills to be happy and not miss us too much.

And so today --he was very ecstatic! The job he didnt look for and the job he wanted so much -- he got it. By the grace of GOD he is really putting all of our plans into place. Now the search is on for the apartment close to his work. Incidentally the present job he has is 15 mins drive from my moms house where Patrick is staying. Now the new job is 8 minutes drive ! How good is that ! And now we have to really find a house in the same area, a school for Jacob too. I think we can revert back to the same routine there. Patrick had his job here just in the Laguna Techno park and he would leave for work just after the school bus picked up the boys. Also he would come home for lunch to see the kids before they go to sleep for afternoon nap. Its real family time once again.....

God has been listening to our requests and prayers, for that I am glad and ever so thankful.

Scrapfest 4 - A Shining Success

2007-10-10T05:26:00.000+08:00

Every Scrapfest we live and learn from each event and we trully believe that we are keeping our goal to share and teach techniques to our participants.

And Judging from their smiles and even their tears, we have continued this tradition with an extra plus of our scrapbookers... and 'extra plus' is that is we trully care for them. Every event is planned around them and we always have them in mind when planning for demos, to the food and even to the contents of their loot bag!

Our demonstrations were set up in U shape format to allow our participants to enjoy and learn from our "I confess" demonstration . I also sensed that the participants were a lot more confortable in this set up and they breezed through the demonstration with ease. I noticed a lot of newbies attended and I am so glad they did because we need to grow us a community. Some of the newbies already had potential and so prepared to be wowed one day ladies by the new breed of scrapbookers. Scrappin Moms idol was with the intention to set up a competition that will give rise to the talent and ingenuity of the Filipino Scrapper. A lot of them would not even care or have the guts to join but with much prodding they did.

We believe in them and we believe there is something there to tap.

Our 12 finalists are winners in their own rights --- they have lived through all the challenges with much gusto and drive -- not to just win but to challenge them selves to think and scrap outside of the box.

As we saw their work displayed, I had to grab my jaw from dropping straight on the floor because I was flabergasted on how each layout came out. Even as the winners were being announced -- our shining 12, I had felt like a mother getting all teary eyed for her childs' award. I was so impressed and so glad we gave them a venue to show their talents.

The Scrapfest was born this OCTOBER thru the great bayanihan of our suppliers. I am personally thankful to them (alongside my mommy partners) because they always give their all out support to us.

We thought of Scrappin Moms IDOL so close to the Scrapfest but jumping on the sponsorship band wagon was our beloved Scrapbukan.com and Lasting Impressions. Sahrie and Vivian needn't hear our full details - they just believed we were cooking up a great competition. And following their tracks our other friends from My little Attic, Visual Creations, Memory Lane, Buzy Bee and CID Systems who realised too, the scrappers here need to sink their teeth into something.

It is an event at the end of the year and most sponsorships are ignored for any industry. I refer to them as my angels because they have such kind hearts ! Julie and Sheryl of Bookoto lent their extra mile hands to us and helped us get sponsorship from Creating Keepsakes, Leisure Arts, Creative Memories and Somerset Memories. Scrapbukan.com under the capable hands of Sahrie Wenceslao again generously donated the KI papers in our lootbags. And to top it all off -- the photo finishes of all photo finishes, Del Monte Kitchenomics who are as excited as we are with our partnership - generously donated their products and became a highlight of our demonstration "I confess"...

All our suppliers generously donated products for raffle and loot bag and I would like to recognize the following, Elizabeth of King Jim, thank you for always supporting us in our events.
To Yellow Violet House, Rekindled Moments, Visual Creations for the wonderful lootbag scrapbook items and raffle prizes. My Little Attic, Scrapbooks Hawaii, Lasting Impression, Memory Box, and Creative ME, thank you for the wonderful raffle prizes you gave. Marisa of Scrapbooks Hawaii, thank you very much for the wonderful card kits and for helping us celebrate World Card Day.

Special thanks go out to Working Moms' Editor in chief, our beautiful friend Dedet Panabi who is always ready to lend us a hand in spreading the word about scrapbooking. I personally appreciate all the help you give us and I am glad we are the catalyst in jumpstarting your memory making goal for Zachary.

What a way to go out of Manila, to see an event full of smiles and bags full of shopping goodies and of course 12 idols who outwitted themselves to reaching the end of the 2 month competition.
As I write this, I feel a sense of pride that I was able to touch a lot of people with my infectious passion for the hobby. I may not join enough contests to win (dont you worry soon I will do that too) but its so nice to win the hearts of many scrappers and their hugs, kisses and nice words to say good bye was just enuff to make my heart burst of happiness. I heard nice words said about me that day, and I know if it weren't for the Scrappin Moms team, my dreams will never happen. I know they are a great team to continue on the traditions we have started and for sure they will even surpass our present achievements to bigger and better things! I would like acknowledge the heart and soul of Scrappin Moms, April Lim who takes care of almost everything you can think for Scrapfest... you are the best !

I know have made a difference and to me thats an excellent achievement in itself. Geographically, I maybe far away, but in spirit and in the egroup -- I will be around.............

1 Sentimental day

2007-09-26T07:52:00.000+08:00

Forgive me if I need to say this out loud,....

The warmth and love of my friends are the best gifts I have recieved in years (aside from my own family). They have been with me through thick and thin and have laughed and cried with me in my journey through life. They have brought all the good out in me and tamed the ‘not so good’ in the process. They have helped me dream and helped me fufill those desires of my heart, I never thought ever possible. I am but thankful to my hobby, scrapbooking because it was my link to a world full of possibilities, a great and exciting group and a treasure chest of friends I will love forever.. for this I am thankful today….

I am thankful for April – who has helped put order in my life. Taught me to be organized, taught me to be less of a procrastinator. And to move faster…..

I am thankful to Liza for teaching me to take a breath first before I start reacting. To be more patient and to be more calm. My prayers are for you and NELO and your future bundle of joy.

I am thankful to Mia, for being a perfect example what a mother should be to her children. You are an inspiration and I admire your talent and intelligence my dear friend – I miss you so Mama Mia…

I am thankful to Ria, for always being a good leader, for giving me reality checks all the time and affirming me when I need it. Thanks so much for your generosity – you are a rare gem my friend,… and to me you are always beautiful,.. you have perfect eyes!

I am thankful to Pia, for showing me your dedication to ETHAN and for Jeff who is always generous to my family. I will emulate your teamwork and drive when I fly off to Sydney because that’s one thing Patrick and I will really work on when we are there especially with my children.

I am thankful to Ems, for showing me how much she loves Oliver, I know I need to be more loving to my husband as we embark on our new life. Thank you for being a loyal friend…
I am thankful to Bjay for always showing a great big smile and for inspiring me to have a cheerful disposition despite the trials and tribulations of life.

I am thankful to IRIS, for her kindness and generosity to share to others. I also admire you strength to endure any adversity in life. Thanks for sharing your talents !

I am thankful to the many friends I have made along the way – you have enriched my life, made me a better person.. For the all the love, friendship and generosity, I thank you all…

Scrapfest 4 on OCT 6, 2007

2007-09-21T08:03:00.000+08:00

Here are the days event details:
Join us for a day of scrapping, shopping and sharing, together with other scrapbooking enthusiasts and suppliers.
SCRAP
Show off your creativity during our Scrapfest 4 Challenge.
Join our surprise challenge for the day.
Watch the Idol finalists battle in the final round of the 1 st search for Scrappin' Moms Idol!

SHOP
Shop for the newest scrapbooking materials during the event. Top scrapbooking suppliers will bring in the hottest items from the USA and Asia, and have special offers only for this day.

SHARE

Scrappin' Moms with the help of their friends will be sharing various scrapbooking techniques during the demonstrations.

Event Schedule:

1. Registration (9:30am – 10:00am)

2. Hands on Workshops – Various Scrapbooking Techniques (10:00 AM – 3:00 PM)

By the end of the day, we will be completing a mini album using the various techniques demonstrated throughout the day. The theme for this album will be "I confess.." so please bring at least 5 3R or 4R pictures to scrap for this mini album.

3. Scrappin' Moms Idol Grand Showdown (1:00PM – 4:00PM)

It's the grand finale for the Idol finalists. Watch the finalists as they compete for the title of Scrappin' Moms Idol

4. Scrapfest 4 Challenge (4:00PM - 5:00 PM)

Like in previous Scrapfests, we will have an on-the-spot layout challenge. Materials from the challenge kit provided must be used. Challenge particulars and judging criteria will be announced prior to commencement of the contest.

WHERE:

OCTOBER 6, 2007
10:00AM – 6:00PM
MAX's RESTAURANT
Scout Tuazon, Quezon City

For a ticket fee of P650.00, each participant (same price for adults & children) is entitled to the following:
A mini album kit to complete during the hands-on workshop
A Scrapfest challenge kit.
A lunch and snack coupon
A raffle coupon
Use of various materials for stamping and embossing, as well as use of die-cutting machines.
Access to special discounts offered by the best scrapbooking suppliers all 10 of them in one venue, in one event
A slot to various demonstrations during the day. These demonstrations are also perfect for newbies wanting to dabble in hands on scrapbooking!
Note: As space is limited, ONLY TICKET HOLDERS will be allowed to enter the event.

Kindly check our site for pre payment details and promotions (several raffle prizes up for grabs) of the event. http://www.scrappinmoms.net/scrapfest4/

Finally! I am the designated driver !

2007-09-17T19:10:00.000+08:00

After 36 years I finally got my license and drove ! MANUAL TRANSMISSION!

Last friday, my hubby asked me to run an errand for him to get a certification he has been driving more than 5 years for his license in OZ. I found out this had to be obtained at the head office at EAST AVENUE QC (so this was shelved for TUES.) and not to waste my day, I just went ahead to the LTO in Las Pinas and processed my license. The corruption in this govt office is definitely evident -- so crystal clear -- its like the norm here -- so clear you dont even know that employees over the fixers. They are so intertwined and winks here and there, pats on the back and nonsense chit chat to conceal or reveal their modus operandi,.. the decision is to pay or not to pay !

Darn long day I tell you but I am glad all I gave up is the actual fees of the license and the tests that came with it -- and the 140 pesos of which alleviated me from trying to manoever an owner backward and forward in front of the naked public ! I would be so embarrased to do that in front of strangers --- and for goodness sake -- owner!... BEST 140 bucks I parted with ! As I said I am glad I didnt part with 1500 to fix my papers bec the ppl that paid just got off slightly earlier than me -- so meaning no real sense in paying when you cant even get out of there earlier. My time check for the whole day waste of my time was from 9am to 4:30 pm ! IMAGINE!

On, Sunday, with Driver Mon in the passenger seat and myself behind the wheel I drove from Sta Rosa to Pasig,... I was tense yes but I was on a mission ---- I needed to overcome my fears -- and I faced it head on -- course it was just driving pleasure bec no one was on the road but thank GOD my driving was way fine and my kids all got to PASIG Safe and sound,.. to my reading public this may not be a biggie but to me --- the chauffer (or hubby of course) driven lady for 36 years finally has learned to drive ! that's a milestone for me !

I ran upstairs to my MIL and hugged her as I told her my news bec I needed to share my happiness na finally I can drive and finally I have overcome my fear !